Why You Can't Be Yourself in Front of Someone You Like | Women's Edition [Chapter 2]

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This is a psychology magazine that delivers "realizations" and "changes" for women struggling with love.
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"I can't be myself in front of the person I like."
Have you ever felt that way?

You want to be thought of well. You don't want to be disliked.
The stronger those feelings become,
the less you are able to show your true self—

That is a "heart tremor" that everyone who falls in love feels at least once.

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But in fact,
that very state can be the biggest reason why your love life isn't going well.

• Trying too hard to fit in

• Swallowing what you want to say

• Constantly checking the other person's reaction

A love where you let go of your "true self" like that
eventually turns into "pain," and is conveyed to the other person as "heaviness."

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■ Kindness and hesitation are different
■ Not pushing yourself becomes your charm
■ Being "natural" is the greatest attraction factor

In this chapter,
I will carefully explain the "psychology of being able to be yourself even in front of someone you like."

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May you have a love where you can be yourself.
From there, a truly loving relationship begins.