🌷Spiritual Beginnings: The HSP Counterattack - Preemptive Strike

There are three things I want to say, and since I said one last time, there are two more.
I cannot finish until I say these.

Three benefits of being an HSP.
Lv. 1 Escaping (Strategic Retreat)
Lv. 2 Preemptive Strike (Sensing the atmosphere and acting first)
Lv. 3 Kotodama Scan (Reading a person's character through their writing)

This time,
Lv. 2 Preemptive Strike

“Oh, this person is angry.”

If you are dealing with one person, it is possible to change the situation with a preemptive strike!
These are attack methods you can use at such times.

Attack Method 1: Facial Expressions

Don't you think, “My facial expressions have no power”?
Is that really true?

As an HSP, you should know. The strength of the energy released from a person's facial expressions.
Don't you think you could use that to your advantage?

Facial expressions resonate much more strongly than words.
So, just by training them, your ability to change the atmosphere increases.

However, I was too embarrassed to practice making smiles even when I was alone.
So, I thought of it as “facial muscle training” and started just by lifting the corners of my mouth.

When you do that, not just smiles, but serious faces, sad faces, angry faces—
I became able to control any facial expression (perhaps).
And I feel that I have been able to move the atmosphere of a place in the direction I want to change it more often.

Though, not everything goes well.

Attack Method 2: Empathy

If there is someone who is angry,
if you have the capacity, empathy is a powerful weapon.

I often hear that “men tend to be disliked for giving advice to women,”
but that means—I think many people know nowadays that “empathy is what is being sought,” right?

Then, do men like being given advice?

In reality,

I am a man, but I am happier with empathy!!!

Regardless of gender, I think “empathy” is a weapon that makes human relationships smoother.

If the atmosphere starts to become uneasy,
sense it early and change the flow with the power of empathy.

It is better to extinguish the spark while it is small so that the damage is minimized.

Perhaps this role has often been carried by women until now.

But I feel that in the coming era, this kind of “feminine power” is something that men will need.

Attack Method 3: Play dumb and tell the truth
"Oh? Are you angry?"
Usually, this one strike changes the flow.
Once you can do this, then while using empathy,
occasionally say the real things you are thinking.
"But isn't the other person's argument more correct?"
Something like that.
You will definitely be countered!
Empathize with the content of their counterargument,
saying things like, "Ah, that is certainly true."
It's exhausting, though...

This act of adjusting the atmosphere of a situation,

doesn't get any recognition at work,
and no one notices it.

However,

such people certainly exist and support society.

I cannot help but feel that way.

I look forward to seeing you next time.