🌷Spiritual Beginnings: The HSP Counterattack - Kotodama Scan

I've spoken two of the three things I wanted to say,
now there is only one left to tell.
I can't finish until I've said it all.

Three benefits of being an HSP
Lv. 1 Escaping (Strategic Withdrawal)
Lv. 2 Preemptive Strike (Sensing the atmosphere and acting first)
Lv. 3 Kotodama Scan (Reading a person's character through their writing)

Lv. 3 Kotodama Scan (Reading a person's character through their writing)

Reading a person's character through their writing

That doesn't mean I understand them 100%, though✨

Conversely, you shouldn't understand them completely,
or rather, if you think you understand them 100%, it's just a misunderstanding.

This is about how to control and utilize
the margin of what you don't understand.

I'll say this first: if you overthink it, you lose.
If you seek higher precision, you also lose.
Your precious HSP ability will end up becoming a weakness.

Here, I will share one answer that is absolutely certain.

"You cannot understand 100% of how a person feels."

Well, that's obvious, isn't it?
So, the first step is to admit that you don't know.

The second step is
realizing that it doesn't matter at all if what you felt was wrong.

Now, with the introduction out of the way, let's get to the main topic.
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Many people

"HSP = sensitive to sound, light, and direct stimuli"

I think they have an image like that, but

even the text that enters your eyes can resonate strongly in your heart.

I wonder if this fact
is surprisingly not well known.

• Nuance of words

• Hidden intentions

• The temperature of the writing

• The sound and rhythm of words

Don't you find that you unconsciously pick up on such subtle elements, causing your feelings to be swayed or getting swept up in the emotions of others?

Truth be told, Satori-san was so afraid of that, I couldn't even bring myself to comment on my favorite YouTube channels until recently.

I was afraid that my words, failing to read the room, would hurt someone.
I was afraid that I would say something completely off-base because I couldn't read the room.
I was afraid that doing so would cause trouble for the channel owner.

Because I over-analyze everything, I end up worrying too much about how my own words will be received.

It is ironic that those who are capable of reading the room are the ones most afraid of failing to do so.

When interpreting text, I think it's fine to consider the worst-case scenario, but that is merely one possibility.

Conversely, try thinking of the best-case scenario; most people would probably feel that it's 'unlikely'.
Don't you think the worst and best cases have the same probability of occurring?

If so, then both the worst-case and the best-case are equally 'unlikely'.

Both the worst and best cases have extremely low probabilities.

Once you can acknowledge this, you can judge what the other person is thinking

with a relaxed state of mind, thinking 'it's probably something like this,'

and I believe that, as a result, your accuracy will improve.

With this, the accuracy of your interpretation has increased.

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Now, it is finally time for the attack phase.

When replying to someone with some kind of text,

if you act from the position of 'not getting hurt yourself,'

it is inefficient, as it drains your energy and doesn't move things forward.

Re-recognize what it is you want to do.
Expressing gratitude, saying thank you, looking forward to the next time, or offering encouragement to the other person.

What you truly want to do is not 'to avoid getting hurt,' is it?

Text written in accordance with 'This is what I think!'
even if it turns out to be a mistake,

or even if it ends up hurting someone,

will surely become fuel for your future growth.

In fact, if you have that level of resolve,
I don't think such things will happen very often anyway.
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I believe I have said everything I wanted to say for now.
Next time, I'd like to do a brief summary and reflection.

Thank you for your support!