🌷The HSP Counterattack: Preemptive Strikes, Shifting Trajectories with Small Forces

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The second rewrite of an article I wrote a long time ago
Click here for the first article ⬇

I'm writing about the advantages of being an HSP

3 advantages of being an HSP
Lv.1 Escaping (Strategic Withdrawal)
Lv.2 Preemptive Strike (Sensing the atmosphere and acting first)
Lv.3 Reading the Spirit of Words (Discerning character through writing)

In the first article,
the probability of being able to escape from a tense atmosphere
is clearly higher for HSPs.

That is what I talked about.

So this time,
it's Lv.2.

Lv.2 Preemptive Strike (Sensing the atmosphere and acting first)

"Oh, this person is angry."

You can tell, right? 😊 If you're an HSP

If you're dealing with one person, it's possible to change the situation with a preemptive strike!
Here are some attack methods you can use at such times

Attack Method 1: Facial Expression

Do you think, "My facial expressions don't have any power"?
Is that really true?

HSPs should understand.
The intensity of the energy emitted from people's facial expressions.

Don't you think that can beutilizedinstead?
Facial expressions are much stronger than words.

Therefore,
if you consciously train,
your ability to change the atmosphere will increase.

Let's try practicing making a smile😊

...

I'm sorry😞
I couldn't do that💦

Don't you think smiling is surprisingly difficult?
It's embarrassing😳

So

I tried changing my mindset like this⬇
Facial muscle training, just lifting the corners of the mouth.

With this,
I feel like the hurdle has been lowered.

When you do things like that,
not just smiles,
but serious faces, sad faces, angry faces—

I have become able to control
any facial expression (perhaps).

And I feel that I am increasingly able to
steer the atmosphere of a room
in the direction I want it to go.

Not everything goes well, though.😊

Attack Method 2: Empathy

When there is someone who is angry,
if you have the capacity, empathy becomes a powerful weapon.

You often hear things like
"Men are disliked by women for giving advice,"
but

that means—"empathy is what is being sought"
—you already know that, right?

Do men like being given advice?

　When asked that...

I am a man, but I want to be empathized with!!!

Regardless of gender, I think "empathy"
is a weapon that makes human relationships smoother.

When the atmosphere starts to become tense,
detect it early and change the flow with the power of empathy.

It is better to extinguish the spark while it is still small
so that the damage remains minimal.

There is no need to overthink it.

Oh,
I see,
so that's how it was.

You can just say things like that.
(Just saying it casually😑)

This kind of role
has often been taken on by women until now
...perhaps.

However, in the coming era,
I feel that this kind of "feminine power"
is actually necessary for men too😆

Attack Method 3: Play dumb and tell the truth

"Huh? Are you angry?"

Usually, this one strike changes the flow.

Once you can do this, then while using empathy in combination,
occasionally
you just go ahead and say the real thing you were thinking.

"But isn't the other person's argument
actually more correct?"

Something like that, right?
It's fine if you have the courage to do it😊

If you do, you will definitely be countered!

That's exactly what they want🙆
Let's empathize with the content of their counterargument,
saying, 'Ah, that's certainly true, isn't it?'

It's exhausting, for sure...

However,
this act of setting the atmosphere of the room like this,

doesn't get you any recognition at work, and
no one notices it.

$${\Large H・o・w・e・v・e・r✨}$$

Such people certainly do exist, and

$${\large{they are definitely supporting society}}$$

Yes, you are the one supporting society.

Don't you think so?

I look forward to seeing you next time.

⬇Original Article⬇
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