To you who think you have nothing.

I cannot have confidence in myself.

I don't have any special talents either.

Even though the people around me look amazing,
I feel like I am the only one who has nothing.

Don't you ever feel that way?

It's not that I haven't been trying.

In fact, I have been working hard in secret.

Even so, I just cannot acknowledge myself.

Today, I am writing for those of you who feel this way.

── Your own strengths are hard for you to see

There is something strange.

The people who truly have strengths,
do not think of them as strengths themselves.

This is because,

they are natural to them.

Being able to listen to others carefully.

Being able to read the room.

Being able to see things through to the end.

Being able to continue steadily.

Being able to imagine how others feel.

From the person's own perspective,

"Anyone could do that, right?"

is what they think.

But in reality,
it is not something anyone can do.

── The less confident you are, the more you fail to see

The difference between those who are confident and those who are not,

is not a difference in ability,

but often a difference in what they see.

People who lack confidence,

look at what they couldn't do.

They look at what they are missing.

They look at what they failed at.

That is why they lose sight of their own value.

But in truth,

the things you have been doing naturally until now,
often hide what makes you who you are.

── Strengths are not necessarily special talents

When we talk about strengths,

we think of things we are better at than others.

Things we cannot be beaten at.

Some people might have that image.

But that is not actually true.

Strengths are,

things you do naturally.

things you can continue without strain.

things you end up doing anyway.

things that make others happy.

They are a collection of such small characteristics.

Therefore, strengths are perhaps not something you go out to find,
but something you remember.
something you recall.

── To put into words what you cannot see yourself

Your own strengths are difficult to see on your own.

That is why at Cocoshirube,
we use numerology
as one of the hints to know yourself.

In the numbers that emerge from your date of birth,

habits of thinking,

the direction of your talents,

and the environment where you can comfortably demonstrate your power,

such hints are hidden.

Of course, numbers alone
cannot tell you everything about a person.

However,

"Perhaps I had this side to me"

There are times when you realize that.

── Confidence comes later

Even when you try to have confidence,
there are times when you just can't.

That might be because confidence is not something that comes first.

Knowing yourself.

Accepting yourself.

Understanding yourself little by little.

Beyond that accumulation,
you realize that confidence has grown.

I think that is the order of things.

── Finally

If right now,

you feel,

"I have nothing."

It is not that you truly have nothing,

it may just be that it hasn't been put into words yet.

At Cocoshirube,

At Cocoshirube, using numerology, astrology, and tarot as hints,

we help you put your strengths, talents,
and your true self into words.

I want to know myself a little more deeply.

At times like that,
please feel free to consult us via a free assessment.

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