A Story of Thin Social Connections for Survival: Finding Reliable Bonds While Browsing Note

Recently,
while browsing Note and Threads,
I leave small comments for people
whose perspectives or thoughts I think, 'I like that 👍'.
It's not that

I want to become great friends,
or join a community,
or anything like that.
I just

want to convey,
'I like that way of thinking.'
—

I feel like I used to
look for the 'correct answer' more.

Which one is right?
Who is correct?
Which way of thinking should I follow to avoid making a mistake?

But lately,
having experienced many things,
I've come to feel that there are only things that cannot be easily categorized as black or white.

Mental illness.
Welfare.
Labor issues.
Family.
Politics.
Community.

None of these
can be settled
just by saying, 'This is correct.'

So now,
rather than 'answers,'
I am drawn to 'people who think properly.'
—

Reading Note,

there are moments when I think, 'Ah, this person was thinking the same kind of thing.'
At that time,
I feel a little relieved.

It doesn't have to be
exactly the same way of thinking.

Just
being able to think, 'I like that perspective,'
makes the distance to the world feel a little closer.
—

Right now,

I don't have the energy to build thick connections yet.

But,
I can keep the lines from being cut, even if they are thin.

・Commenting on Note
・Reacting on Threads
・Listening to people in the community
・Pressing 'Like' on someone's thoughts

Even with such small things,
it's a little different from complete isolation.

—

There are days when I think,
'There is no one.'

But in reality,
connections like thin threads
are often still there.

Right now,
I might be in the middle of relearning how to live
while confirming those threads little by little.

—

#CoinBridge
Verbalizing structures and connecting the field with systems

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#MentalSpace #RecoveryTime #Welfare
#LifeInMy40s #MeTime #TimeForOrganizing