📚164: Change Everything with One Word! The Secret to Heart and Empathy in Human Relationships - Reading '90% of People Listen' (6) -
Prologue
- Introduction -
Hello, I'm Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
In doing so, I have summarized the things that stayed in my heart and the insights I learned
as tips for living!
I hope they are useful for your daily life too♪
This time, it is about
the secret to the heart and empathy you should be conscious of in human relationships
!
* Please also check out this article for the reasons why I continue reading and what I learn (^^)!!
Chapter.1
- Reading Details -
Chapter.2
- What is Important When Listening to Others -
Listening to people is difficult.
I need to polish my skills.
Have you ever thought that?
However, skills are not that important for listening to people.
What is important is
the mindset (mental state) when listening.
People listen well to stories that are beneficial to them.
Compared to people with such vested interests, the emotional index of "they are listening to me" becomes greater with people who seem to have no benefit at first glance.
Even for stories that have no benefit to you,
listening with respect and empathy for the other person is important.
By doing so, not only will you gain a lot of things that become your own learning, but
besides the impression from the other person, your own human power will also change significantly!
Chapter.3
- Keywords to Open the Heart -
Everyone does not want to be denied.
They want their feelings to be understood and
they want empathy.
However, there are not a few people who have resistance to exposing themselves suddenly.
In such a situation, how do you open the other person's heart?
When can people talk with a sense of security?
It is "That's right, I understand"
to show empathy with those words.
Many people have a fear of opening their hearts to others based on past experiences.
Understanding that, I will get close to the other person's feelings and gradually use these words.
By doing so, I can give the other person a sense of security and open the door to their heart little by little!
Epilogue
- Summary of this time -
Through reading on this day, I learned the secret to the heart and empathy that should be conscious of in human relationships!
Don't you think it's difficult to listen to people?
It seems that what is important is
the mindset when listening.Even if it is a story that has no benefit to you, listen with respect and empathy for the other person.
Thinking that by doing so, not only will the impression from the other person improve, but your own human power will also change significantly, it is somehow profound✨
And, to open the other person's heart,
"That's right, I understand" seems to be a good word of empathy!
Everyone does not want to be denied and wants their feelings to be understood, right?
But, it is scary to expose yourself suddenly.
At such times, by showing empathy with these words and giving them a sense of security, the other person will open the door to their heart little by little.
Don't you think it's very useful for human relationships too?
With just one word, human relationships might change dramatically🔁
If you
often struggle with human relationships...
or think, 'I want to be more trusted by others!'
why not try this secret of heart and empathy?
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Next time,
we will discuss the secret to being loved and relied upon by others through listening!
Highlights So Far
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