📚210: A Must-Read for People in Their 20s and 30s! Thoughts on the Sense of Contribution That Enriches Life
🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -
Hello, this is Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
I have condensed the things that left an impression on me and the insights I gained
into tips for living!I hope they are useful in your daily life too♪
This time,
it is about ways of thinking and being
to enrich your life!
* Please also take a look at this article regarding the reasons for continuing to read and what to learn (^^)!!
🟩 Chapter.1 🟩
- Reading Details -
🟥 Chapter.2 🟥
- Harmony in Life -
In interpersonal relationships,
we are often exposed to unpleasant experiences.
However, in any case,
the problem lies only with the person attacking you,
and it is by no means that everyone is bad.
Nervous people
often use words like "always," "everyone," and "everything."
If you use these as catchphrases,
you need to be careful.
This way of living
is a life that lacks harmony.
The reason interpersonal relationships do not go well is
because you are focusing on a very small part that should not matter,
and trying to evaluate the entire world
from that.
A life where you think "work is everything"
is the same.
Everything, including work at home and contributions to society, is "work,"
and thinking only about company work
lacks harmony in life.
Can you only evaluate your own value
at the level of behavior,
or can you accept it at the level of existence?
This is what relates to the courage to be happy.
🟦 Chapter.3 🟦
- What is Happiness -
What should people do to become happy?
The greatest misfortune for a human being is
not being able to like oneself.
However, by thinking that you are useful to someone,
you can realize your own value.
In other words, if you can
have a sense of contributionto others or society,
people can become happy.
However, if approval from others
comes to the forefront,
you will end up living a life
as someone else desires.
There is no freedom in a sense of contribution gained from a desire for approval.
If you truly have a sense of contribution,
approval from others is unnecessary.
If you can realize a sense of contribution yourself,
you can engage in self-acceptance and contribution to others
without being trapped by a desire for approval.
🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of This Time -
Through my reading on this day,
I learned ways of thinking and being to enrich my life!
Are you looking at only a part of your life,
such as thinking that "life equals work"?
"Everyone," "always," and "everything"—
words like these
are said to be signs of a life lacking harmony. Looking at all aspects, such as interpersonal relationships and contributions to society, in a balanced way
is what leads to
harmonizing your life!
For a person to be happy,
they must have a sense of contribution,
the feeling that they are useful to someone.
When you can truly feel that you are useful to someone,
you become able to
recognize your own value yourself.
However, a sense of contribution gained from a desire for approval
lacks freedom.
If you truly have a sense of contribution,
you do not need approval from others.
If you can feel that you are useful to someone,
you can practice self-acceptance and contribute to others
without being trapped by a desire for approval.
Doesn't that make living feel
much easier?✨
If you
"cannot feel confident in yourself..."
or "want to shine more like yourself!"
why not try adopting this way of thinking about contribution
starting with things close to you?
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Next time,
we will talk about what to think about
to achieve a free way of life!
Highlights So Far
[Summary 1]
[Summary 2]
[Summary 3]