📚362: The Shortcut to Growth is the Power of Others! The Secret to Learning by Making Allies of Those Around You

🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -

Hello, this is Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
In doing so,I have compiled the things that touched my heart and the insights I gained
as tips for living!
I hope they are useful in your daily life too♪

This time,
it is about the secret to growing with those around you
and knowing yourself!

※ Please also take a look at this article
regarding the reasons I continue to read and what I learn (^^)!!

🟩 Reading Details 🟩

🟥 Learning ① 🟥
- The Necessity of Help from Others -

You cannot live a rich life
without the help of others.
If you cannot obtain what you desire,
it means you failed to successfully
obtain the help of others.

By saying you don't know what you don't know
and by asking for favors well
when you need help,
you can avoid wasting time and energy.
In return, you can learn
more things.

Asking for help is the same as
sending a signal that you want to execute.
Not doing so also means
that you do not want to learn or do not desire it earnestly.
Conversely,

by asking for help,you provide an opportunity to make the other person feel
that they are a valuable person.

And, even just by gathering the courage to ask,
more people will help you
than you might think.

🟦 Learning ② 🟦
- Action from Observation and Recording -

If you are unable to put what you have decided into action,
it is good to imagine someone's eyes on you.
If you think you are being watched by someone,
you can make wiser choices.

And, people's behavior changes
even when you are watching yourself.
Just by having someone, including yourself,
observe or record your actions,
people's behavior changes.

By observing and recording yourself,
it becomes a regulation that controls
yourself.
To observe yourself,
take the following steps.

By making yourself the object of observation in this way,
you become more consciously aware of those activities,
which becomes fuel to try even harder.

🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -

Through my reading today,
I learned the secret to growing with those around me
and knowing myself!

Are you holding everything in,
thinking, "I have to do my best alone"?💦

Rather than that,honestly asking for help
is the shortcut to success🌈
Asking someone to teach you is a wonderful gift that allows you to provide value to the other person🎁

Also, when you find it hard to get moving
try observing yourself
while being conscious of someone else's gaze🤔

Simply recording your actions with numbers
will switch your brain into motivation mode
and accelerate change🚀✨
This habit of viewing yourself objectively
will draw your ideal future closer🗝️

Have you been able to say
“Help me” or “Teach me”
to someone lately?🤝☀️
To grasp a rich life,
let's move forward while supporting each other🌱🌈

Next time preview

Next time,
we will discuss self-image,
which changes your actions and destiny!

Highlights so far

They are summarized here,
so please take a look at the other articles as well ⬇️✨