📚239: Creating the Best Companions! How to Build Relationships Where You Can Speak Honestly

🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -

Hello, I'm Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
I have summarized the things that left an impression on me and the insights I learned
as tips for living! I hope they are useful in your daily life too♪

This time
it is about what you should do to build a relationship of trust
!

* Please also take a look at this article regarding the reasons for continuing to read and what to learn (^^)!!

🟩 Chapter.1 🟩
- Reading Details -

🟥 Chapter.2 🟥
- Value Analog Communication -

The frequency of contact is the foundation for building a relationship of trust.
Therefore,

it is important to set up opportunities to meet face-to-face
regularly and frequently in an analog way.

The first step to creating a relationship where you can speak honestly
is to lower the guard of the person in front of you
and create psychological safety.

Humans find it easier to build relationships with people who are physically close to them.
(From Theodore Newcomb's "Propinquity Effect")

Rather than the content of the conversation or techniques of speaking,
by increasing the frequency of meeting,
you become, to the other person,

and change in that way.

🟦 Chapter.3 🟦
- Sharing the Same Experience in the Same Space -

As the saying goes, "eating from the same pot,"

people deepen their relationshipsby sharing the same space or the same experience.

By being in a place where you do things together,
you can build a friendly relationship even with someone who was initially nervous just by making eye contact.

In the process of deepening the relationship,
as you confide your worries
or hear about their turning points in life,
you can become someone they feel they can speak honestly with.

🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -

Through my reading today,
I learned about what should be done to build a relationship of trust!

Don't you think,
"I want companions I can speak honestly with"?

The foundation of a relationship of trust is
the frequency of contact.
It seems that setting up opportunities to meet face-to-face regularly in an analog way
creates psychological safety.
By increasing the frequency of meeting,
the truth of human relationships works where you change from a stranger to a person they can trust
to the other person!

And, to deepen a relationship,
share the same experience in the same space.

By being in a place where you do things together,
as you naturally become closer,
you can confide your worries,
hear about their life's turning points,
and become someone they feel
they can speak honestly with.🤝✨

If you are thinking,
'I want to improve my relationships, but
I don't know what to do...'
'I want to live a richer life!'
If you feel that way,
why not value the same experiences as analog communication
when interacting with others?

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