📚203: Boasting stems from an inferiority complex!? Breaking free from a life that prioritizes misfortune
🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -
Hello, I'm Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
I have condensed the things that left an impression on me and the insights I learned
into tips for living!I hope they are useful for your daily life too♪
This time,
I learned about how to perceive inferiority complexes!
I learned!
※ Please also take a look at this article for the reasons why I continue reading and what I learn (^^)!!
🟩 Chapter.1 🟩
- Reading Details -
🟥 Chapter.2 🟥
- Ways of thinking about inferiority complexes -
An inferiority complex issomething related to the value judgment of oneself.
It is based on the feeling that one's own value is only to this extent.
However, by shifting that value,
you can perceive that what you feel as an inferiority complex
is actually not an inferiority complex.
Example of a way of thinking)
Worried about having a small stature
→ Large people might intimidate others,
but if you are small, you can ease the other person's wariness
⇒ This is a positive thing for both yourself and those around you
The important thing is
what kind of meaning you assign to feeling an inferiority complex
and what kind of values you give it.
Recognize that the factor that makes you suffer from an inferiority complex
is not an objective fact,
but a subjective interpretation.
🟦 Chapter.3 🟦
- Boasting due to an inferiority complex -
If there is someone who boasts,
it is simply because that person feels an inferiority complex.
They act as if they are superior
and are indulging in a false sense of superiority.
If you truly have confidence, you do not boast.
It is precisely because the inferiority complex is strong
that one tries to show off that they are superior.
When this becomes complicated, it turns into boasting about misfortune,
and they try to control the other person by using their own misfortune as a weapon.
As long as they do that, that person will forever
need misfortune.
🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -
Through the reading of this day,
I learned about how to perceive inferiority complexes!
Are you worried about your own inferiority complex?
The cause of suffering from an inferiority complex
is not an objective fact,
but a subjective interpretation.
For example, even if your small stature is an inferiority complex,
you can perceive it as a strength that eases the other person's wariness.
It is important what kind of meaning you assign to an inferiority complex✨
And people who boast about misfortune
are just trying to use that misfortune as a weapon
to control the other person.
As long as they need misfortune,
they will remain unhappy forever😨
If you
"I can't have confidence in myself..."
"I feel depressed when I compare myself to others..."
If you are thinking that,
why not adopt this way of thinking about inferiority complexes?
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Next time, we will discuss
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Highlights So Far
[Summary 1]
[Summary 2]
[Summary 3]