📚315: Make yourself and those around you happy! Tips for keeping promises to your loved ones
🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -
Hello, this is Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
I have summarized the things that left an impression on me and the insights I learned
as tips for living!I hope this is useful for your daily life too♪
This time,
it's about the mindset
to make yourself and those around you happy!
* Please also check out this article for the reasons why I continue reading and what I learn (^^)!!
🟩 Reading Details 🟩
🟥 Lesson ① 🟥
- How to spend money -
Should I buy it or not?
Should I take my time comparing and decide?
Like this, hesitation is always part of shopping.
When you feel hesitant,
you should make an immediate decision
based on the following simple criteria.
✅️ If you are hesitant about something business-related, buy it
The difference in work quality
is created by intuition and speed.
If you are considering a purchase related to work,
buying without hesitation is the way to win.
✅️ If you are hesitant even once about luxury items, do not buy them
Since they are not absolutely necessary,
if you are going to hesitate, the time spent hesitating
is a waste, so don't buy them.
🟦 Lesson ② 🟦
- Things to keep in mind when making plans to meet -
When you want to meet someone,
call them immediately and go see them.
It may seem selfish, but
this is also one of the success principles
for seizing opportunities yourself.
For modest Japanese people,
this is a high hurdle,
but for the other person,
it is like an opportunity jumping in.
If there is a benefit for the other person too,then as a result, you should be welcomed.
Since speed and information are important,
it is important to have a mindset of acting immediately without limiting possibilities
and turning them into opportunities.
🟨 Lesson ③ 🟨
- Prioritize human relationships first -
People who cannot make those close to them happy
cannot make those far away happy.
It is important to prioritize your time
and act starting from those closest to you.
First, prioritize time with family, then time with friends,
and then prioritize work time after that.
You must never break promises with family or friends
using work as an excuse.
To ensure that doesn't happen,
properly control your time, work, and human relationships.
Calculate the time to finish work and proceed,
and while prioritizing human relationships,
cherish communication with everyone.
🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -
Through reading on this day,
I learned the mindset to make myself and those around me happy!
Are you worrying for too long about how you spend your money?🤔
The criteria for when you are hesitant is simple.
If it's business-related, buy it immediately!
The difference in work is made by speed.
Conversely,for luxury items, if you hesitate even once,
do not buy them.
The time spent hesitating is a waste!
This decisiveness is the secret
to attracting future success💸⚡️
Also, to seize an opportunity
it is important to have the momentum to call immediately and go meet them
🚀
It takes courage for reserved Japanese people, but immediate action is the only way to expand possibilities.
And above all,
the thing you should prioritize most in life is
time with family and friends🏠
Do not break important promises because of work.
To that end, control your work and build rich human relationships🤝
If you are thinking,
“I want to make myself and those close to me even happier!”
why not be conscious of this way of setting priorities?
Next time preview
Next time, it will be about
how to think about income to become wealthy!
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