📚286: What is the cause of losing focus? The balance of decision-making to improve decisiveness

🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -

Hello, this is Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
In doing so, I havesummarized the things that touched my heart and the insights I learned
as tips for living!
I hope this is useful for your daily life too♪

This time,
it is about a way of thinking to improve your decisiveness!

* Please also take a look at this article regarding the reasons for continuing to read and what I learn (^^)!!

🟩 Reading Details 🟩

🟥 Lesson ① 🟥
- Keep your decision-making balance -

There is a limit to decision-making power.
If you waste your energy on small choices
like what clothes to wear or what to eat for breakfast,
your decisiveness will dull during important moments at work.

It is important to thoroughly eliminate the number of trivial decisions
and save your energy
for where it should be used.

One way to save energy
is to keep as few things as possible in your home.
Just having a cluttered or dirty house
can drain your concentration all at once.

Reduce things, not just physical objects,
but also relationships and information.
By keeping your surroundings tidy,
you will also be less likely to be swayed
by unnecessary emotions like anger or jealousy.

🟦 Lesson ② 🟦
- Choose people connected by values -

Once you become an adult, there is no need to be obsessed with blood relations.
Even if relatives meddle in your affairs,
they are not necessarily going to help you
when the time comes.

Rather than relatives who are only connected by blood,
relationships connected by values
become your true companions.

It is better to live hand-in-hand
with companions who share your values.

🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -

Through my reading today,
I learned about a way of thinking
to improve decisiveness!

Are you using up all your energy
on small daily hesitations?

There is a limit to decision-making power.
If you exhaust yourself with small choices
like choosing clothes or meals,
your decisiveness will dull in important situations.
What is important is toreduce trivial decisions.
By letting go of things and unnecessary information,
you can maintain your focus
and create a self that is not swayed by emotions🏡✨

And, it is also important to be selective
in your relationships.

Once you are an adult, there is no need to
be obsessed with mere blood ties.
Instead,relationships connected by values
will become the true companions who support you.
Living hand-in-hand with companions who share the same aspirations
should make life much richer and more exciting🤝🌈

If you are
"I'm chased by tasks every day and have no breathing room..."
"I want truly reliable companions!"
If you feel this way,
why not adopt the habit of
being conscious of your decision-making balance?

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Next time,
we will discuss communication that considers the other person!

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