📚298: Are You Only Seeing What You Want to See? An Objective Perspective to Overcome Bias

🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -

Hello, I'm Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
I have summarized the things that left an impression on me and the insights I learned
as tips for living! I hope they are useful in your daily life too♪

This time,
it's about the importance of having an objective perspective!

* Please also check out this article for why I continue to read and what I learn (^^)!!

🟩 Reading Details 🟩

🟥 Lesson ① 🟥
- Broadening Your Perspective -

People unconsciously tend to see only what they want to see.
This phenomenon is called the color-bath effect.

This phenomenon can occur with any event.
If you are not aware of this,
you may fall into unexpected pitfalls.

Depending on what you focus on,
you can easily become biased
and only see what is convenient for you.
Instead of seeing what you want to see like this,
you should see what you need to see.

It is important to incorporate objectivity and your own thinking into your perspective
and calmly assess things.

🟦 Lesson ② 🟦
- Don't Be Swayed by Money -

Have you ever had the experience of earning temporary income
and becoming a big spender?

When the amount of money you have suddenly increases,
your sense of money gets distorted.
And even after that money is gone,
your distorted sense of money does not easily return to normal.

This can lead to changes in how you interact with people,
and in the end, you might even lose your friends.
Money that is beyond your means
can easily drive a person crazy.

Even if you get a windfall, don't go crazy,
use your head to maintain it,
and be a person worthy of the money you have obtainedis important.

🟨 Lesson ③ 🟨
- Change How You Speak -

To make an impression with your presence in a meeting,
aim for the gaps or quiet moments that arise in the conversation.
At that time, do not talk too much,
and state your thoughts slowly and concisely.

Beyond the content,
what is important is the speed and timing of your speech.
A slow tempo increases persuasiveness.

With just one way of speaking, your words gain weight,
and it clearly indicates your position.

🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -

Through today's reading,
I learned the importance of having an objective perspective!

Are you unconsciously gathering only
the information that is convenient for you? 🤔

Due to the color-bath effect, humans are creatures thatonly see what they want to see.
Not being swayed by bias and
calmly discerning what needs to be seen is essential for self-growth.
By having an objective viewpoint,
you can avoid unexpected pitfalls. 🕳️🙅‍♂️

Also, how you handle money
can destroy relationships... 💸

If your sense of money is distorted by temporary income,
there is a risk of losing precious friends.
Don't be swayed by money,
and keep refining yourself to be worthy of the amount you have earned. ✨

Furthermore, how you speak in meetings!
By aiming for a moment of silence
and speaking slowly and concisely,your words will carry more weight,
and your future evaluation will change as well. 🚀

If you think,
"I want to stand out from the crowd!"
or "I want to become a trusted adult,"
why not try focusing on things
with an objective perspective in mind? ✨

Next time preview

Next time,
it will be about the secret to having your proposals
easily accepted by others!

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