📚348: For those afraid of being disliked. The secret to closing the distance without fearing friction
🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -
Hello, this is Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
In doing so,I have summarized the things that left an impression on me and the insights I learned
as tips for living!
I hope they are useful for your daily life too♪
This time,
it is about things to keep in mind
to change your relationships!
* Please also check out this article for the reasons why I continue reading and what I learn (^^)!!
🟩 Reading Details 🟩
🟥 Learning ① 🟥
- Mindset for relationships -
When relationships are stable,
you can avoid increasing unnecessary tasks.
People who live like this
have the following common traits.
✅️ Do not speak ill of others
✅️ Do not change your attitude depending on the person
✅️ Do not forget to be grateful
✅️ Do not try to control the other person
✅️ Do not be stingy
✅️ Greet others first
✅️ Sleep for more than 7 hours
✅️ Exercise your body every day
✅️ Listen well to what others say
✅️ Always have a smile
In addition,
slowly nod at what the other person says
and when you speak, stare into the other person's eyes
and talk without looking away.
By doing this, you can appear to be a person who has no openings.
🟦 Learning ② 🟦
- How to close the distance with people -
Even if you want to close the distance with someone,
have you ever struggled because you were afraid of getting hurt or being embarrassed?
Even if you hold back,
relationships will not get closer.
That is why,
even if it involves some pain and risk,
you must take a step forward yourself.
Also, understand that
friction may occur somewhere
between you and the other person.
No matter how well you get along,
you both grew up in different environments.
Even if friction occurs,
it is important to talk until that friction disappears.
🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -
Through my reading today,
I learned things to keep in mind
to change my relationships!
“What if I am disliked?”
Are you holding back because of that anxiety?💦
The secret to building good relationships
is in your daily habits.
It is important to keep yourself in check daily, not forgetting smiles, greetings, and gratitude🌈
Nod deeply at what the other person says and talk without looking away. Such small awareness will increase trust🤝
It is natural for friction to occur between people who grew up in different environments.
The courage to talk without running away is the
secret to building real bonds🚀
To you who are thinking, “I want to connect more deeply with someone”🤝☀️
Without fearing some risk, why not take a step forward yourself
and close the distance of your hearts?🌱🌈
Next time preview
Next time,
the secrets to
valuing yourself!
Highlights so far
They are summarized here, so
please take a look at the other articles as well ⬇️✨