📚299: Why are your proposals not being accepted? How to communicate so your message gets through
🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -
Hello, this is Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
I have summarized the things that touched my heart and the insights I learned
as tips for living! I hope they are useful in your daily life too♪
This time,
it is about the secret to making your proposals easily accepted by others
!
※ Please also check out this article regarding why I continue to read and what I learn (^^)!!
🟩 Reading Details 🟩
🟥 Learning ① 🟥
- To get your words across to the other person -
What is important when proceeding with a conversation is
what the other person is looking at and how they are seeing it.
✅️ Where are they looking at things?
✅️ From what perspective are they looking?
✅️ How wide of a range are they looking at?
etc.
The other person is looking at things from their own perspective.
It is important to be conscious of how things look from their side and
place your proposal in a spot that falls within their field of vision
when you speak.
Even if you blindly recommend something you think is good,
it is meaningless to the other person.
Understand the other person's perspective and
identify their needs and situation.
🟦 Learning ② 🟦
- Obtaining valuable information -
Nowadays, thanks to the internet,
we can easily obtain a lot of information.
However, you must not think that
all information is there.
People do not go out of their way to expose all of the truly important information on the internet.
Truly important things are meant to be hidden.
Of course, there is useful information on the internet, but
you must judge the truth of its value with your own eyes.
If you cannot do that,
you will not be able to see what is truly important.
Information is something you get from people.
The raw information inside people's heads is where
the information you should truly value is packed.
🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -
Through my reading today,
I learned the secret to making proposals easily accepted by others!
Have you ever worried that your proposals aren't resonating with others
even though you are sure they are good?😟
Actually, what is important is knowing where the other person is looking, rather than the content itself.👀
If you recommend things selfishly without understanding the other person's perspective or position, it will not reach their heart.
Gently place your proposal in a spot that falls within their field of vision.
Such thoughtfulness makes life go more smoothly.🤝
Furthermore, there is a pitfall in the quality of information as well.💻
In an age where you can get anything online,
truly valuable information
does not flow through the internet.
The things that are truly important
are inside people's heads.🧠✨
Gaining living information through communication with others
is the shortest route to enriching your future.
Let's cultivate the ability to judge for ourselves.🚀
If you
want to "expand your network"
or "achieve results at work,"
why not try being conscious of the other person's perspective every day?
Next time preview
Next time,
we will talk about actions to leave an impression of yourself!
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