📚266: Get Close to Others! Building Relationships That People Appreciate
🟠 Prologue 🟠
- Introduction -
Hello, I'm Tochamin.
I usually read for about 30 minutes a day.
In doing so, I have condensed the things that left an impression on me and the insights I learned
into tips for living!
I hope they are useful in your daily life too♪
This time,
I learned the secret to building relationships that people appreciate!
* Please also take a look at this article regarding the reasons for continuing to read and what I learn (^^)!!
🟩 Reading Details 🟩
🟥 Learning ① 🟥
- Be particular about your shoes -
Your feet are seen more than you think.
If your shoes are good, even a T-shirt and jeans
will look stylish enough.
When being particular about shoes,
it is also good to be particular about the following.
✅ Match the color of your shoes and belt
✅ Have shoes with an orthodox shape
✅ Use wooden shoe trees
✅ Polish them every day
✅ Avoid white socks with leather shoes
Beyond the perspective of fashion,
if you wear worn-out or ill-fitting shoes,
it can lead to back problems
or an awkward gait,
affecting your entire body.
🟦 Learning ② 🟦
- Do not make the main topic the invitation -
Making the conversation about an invitation the main focus
is a no-go.
Before even hearing what you have to say,
it will make the other person put their guard up.
The important thing is, to add the invitation at the end.
After getting close to the other person,
you must first create a flow
that makes them interested in the content of the conversation.
It can be something small like exchanging information,
think about the other person
and do something that makes them happy.
By adding the invitation after that,
you can create a flow
where the other person feels grateful.
🟣 Epilogue 🟣
- Summary of this time -
Through my reading today,
I learned the secret to building relationships that people appreciate!
Do you pay attention even to your feet?
Your feet are seen by people more than you think.
Matching the color with your belt, polishing them every day.
This is important not just for fashion,
but also when considering the impact on your entire body.
Getting yourself in order starting from your feet
is also the foundation for building human relationships, isn't it?👞
And, when you invite someone,
are you making the invitation the main topic?
Making the main topic the invitation makes the other person put their guard up,
so it is important to invite them at the end.
It can be something small,
so first do something that makes the other person happy.
By getting close to the other person
and then adding the invitation,
you can create a flow
where the other person feels grateful!
Isn't this an important way of thinking
that can be applied to work and private life?✨
If you are thinking,
"I want to expand my human relationships but
I don't know what to do..."
"I want to be trusted more by people!"
If you think that,
why not incorporate this way of thinking
into your relationship building?
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Next time, we will discuss
the premises for changing human relationships and how to give compliments
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