The Night the Geminids End an Adult Romance
December 14, 2025
When you apply the Geminid meteor shower to an adult romance, this is what happens.
A romance that you've kept alive in your head comes to an end.
A relationship that you've kept on life support with excuses burns out.
Gemini is the sign of "words, understanding, and logic."
When this runs wild in an adult romance, it leads to:
• Because I understand
• Because there are circumstances
• Because this is how it is for now
You keep deceiving your feelings with explanations like these.
On the night when meteors streak across the sky in abundance, those "explanatory words" are stripped away all at once.
What remains then?
Do you want to see them? Do you want to touch them? Do you want to trust them enough to surrender yourself?
That is all.
What you see when the words disappear
During this time
You suddenly feel cold
Your discomfort is put into words
You realize there is no going back
If you feel that way, it is not a failure.
It just means your romance has shifted from "childish logic" to "adult reality."
Conversely,
If your relationship continues quietly even as the words decrease,
that romance is not based on thought, but is in alignment with your body.
The true meaning of the meteor shower
The Geminid meteor shower is not an event that calls for a new romance.
In an adult romance,
it is "a night where only the honest feelings that cannot be deceived remain."
Having read this, you will no longer be able to continue a romance based on words.
If it continues, you must be prepared to embrace the silence as well.
That is the romance that remains.
Everything else will flow away and vanish.
Is your romance built on words?
"It's okay because we understand each other"
"We can keep going because we understand each other's circumstances"
If you think that, I want you to stop and think for a moment.
What you truly need is not understanding, but to be loved.
The moment you shift to the side that gives, an adult romance begins to warp.
If you are currently
tired of a relationship that is nothing but explanations.
If you feel uncomfortable with a romance you are trying to hold together with words...
The answer is here.