The Mouth Speaks More Than the Brain

Hello. I'm Fumi.

I write articles for writers, introduce famous quotes, write books, and
manage the brand-new collaborative magazine "Revolutionary Army of Ordinary People"
.

This time, I would like to talk about the theme that
there is no such thing as a person who is just foul-mouthed
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"People who are just foul-mouthed" are a fantasy

People who introduce others by saying,
"He's just foul-mouthed,"
"He's actually a kind person."

Don't you sometimes come across people who are introduced this way?

Every time I hear words like these, I always think the same thing.

"That's impossible."

I love "writing."
So, at the same time, I am also very interested in "words."

How can I convey the feelings of this moment vividly?

Are there no words that can convey this scenery more deeply, clearly, and delicately?

Are there no words that can shake this person's emotions even more?

Every time I write, I think about "how to make my feelings possess this text."

Perhaps that's why, if a friend uses strange Japanese, a Japanese language class suddenly begins.
Really, thank you for taking it.

Because I think about the Japanese language on a daily basis,
my "personal theory of Japanese" has become quite precise.

Words are directly connected to "that person."

That is precisely why I completely reject people who are 'just foul-mouthed'.

This is because I understand words as follows:
Words are directly connected to the person who speaks them.
and I understand them as such.

For example,
let's say someone accidentally spills water or juice on you.

Have you ever shouted at the other person in such a situation?

That happens because you feel the emotion of 'anger,' and it comes out before your brain has a chance to think.

This is because the optimal solution in that situation is 'not to shout'.

If you hadn't shouted, you might have received a heartfelt apology.
Your relationship wouldn't have suffered.
If you think about it further,
they might even have offered to pay for the dry cleaning.

However, because you 'shouted,'
that possibility has been reduced to zero.

Thinking about it this way, you can see that the optimal solution when you feel 'anger' is 'not to shout'.

If you had had a little time to think, your actions would have been different.

Is it perhaps something close to a spinal reflex?

Either way, what is directly connected to that person is their words, even before their brain.

As you can see from this, people who are 'just foul-mouthed' but 'actually kind' do not exist.

If they were truly kind, they would feel the pain of the words they spew that hurt others as if it were their own pain.

By the way, my younger brother is the type with high empathy.

When a lioness catches prey on TV,
even if it's a program about lions.
Even if it's a one-hour special on lions.
Even if it's at the after-party of a 'We Love Lions' club meeting.

He always says, 'Poor thing!'

A "kind person" does not have a foul mouth.
Or rather, they have no way of becoming one.

This is because that person has a kind core in their heart.

By the way, my younger brother once received a complaint from our family saying,
"Please stop, you're ruining the atmosphere" (laughs).

So, this time, I spoke on the theme of
There is no such thing as a person who is just foul-mouthed
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Well then, have a wonderful day.

That is all from Fumi Kazayama.

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