Updated April 20, 2025
Nice to meet you.
As a career consultant, I have listened to the "worries" of many people every day at a government employment support agency (Regional Youth Support Station). (Over 2,000 people in total)
Currently, I am using that experience to provide individual counseling.
And, since April 2023, I have been enrolled as a counselor at a psychosomatic medicine clinic in Kanagawa Prefecture, where I provide counseling at the clinic in parallel with my individual counseling.
Many of the people I supported were NEETs or had experience with social withdrawal (hikikomori). What I realized while providing support was that even if the worries were related to employment, many of the problems were based on human relationships. In particular, the relationship between parent and child is greatly related to a person's personality formation, daily thinking habits, and difficulty in living.
We are all greatly influenced by the environment in which we grew up, our relationships with our parents, and our parents' personalities. For better or worse, due to that influence, we have acquired thinking habits that tend to be biased in childhood and emotional habits that we often use. We live with various characteristics, such as tending to fall into negative thinking more than necessary even though we don't want to, or being too optimistic and unable to consider other people's feelings.
Of course, I think each of these things creates your individuality and leads to your uniqueness.
But I also think that it is very difficult for people to accept themselves completely and live honestly, and that everyone carries a "seed of difficulty in living" in their hearts.
Are you living your life as yourself without worrying about what others think?
Are you closing off your heart because you are worried about someone?
Let's organize your heart, understand your characteristics such as your thinking habits and tendencies to be biased, learn to think based on your own axis rather than others' axes, and make choices that allow you to live a life where you can breathe more easily.
Graduate from being a good child or a good person, and live by forgiving each other while sometimes having others acknowledge your own shortcomings.
Be someone who can expose your own shortcomings.
And furthermore, have friends by your side who accept such a self.
I have recently come to think that being able to live in such an environment is ultimately the happiest way to live.
Be freed from "difficulty in living" and have freer days where you can breathe easier than now.
I am supporting you with the hope that you can live such a life.
[Qualifications]
・National Certified Career Consultant
・Work-Life Balance Support Coordinator
・JKDA Certified Listening Supporter
・JKDA Certified Listening Psychologist
・JKDA Certified Listening Instructor
・Coaching Psychology Association Certified Cognitive Behavioral Coach
・American Board of NLP & Japan NLP Association Certified NLP Practitioner
・Organizing and Storage Advisor
(I also listen to worries about tidying up)
[Top 5 StrengthsFinder Themes]
・1st Empathy
・2nd Developer
・3rd Positivity
・4th Woo
・5th Input
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A slightly unusual characteristic of mine♬
For some reason, close friends and female acquaintances I am close to often say to me, "I wish you were my mother, Kyao-san."
The most surprising thing was that my own sister said it to me (even though we were raised by the same parents!)
An older mom friend has also said it to me, and I was so surprised I asked her again.
By the way, no man has ever said that to me, haha.
It is one of the characteristics that I find mysterious myself.
Services I currently offer
・Click here for counseling (heart-to-heart sessions)
This is my most simple menu. If you are feeling foggy, anxious, sad, or just having a hard time right now, or if you feel like you are carrying a burden in your heart, please start here.
・Click here for career counseling (work sessions)
I have created this channel because I very often have the opportunity to listen to people's worries and difficulties regarding their work.
If you would like someone to listen to your work-related concerns, please start here.
・Click here for feedback on my sessions
Click here for questions and inquiries.