Human relationships are diverse

Good evening.

I feel like I've learned something about new human relationships lately.

Relationships that were a bit out of my reach until now. I tended to choose people who shared similar values and sensibilities to my own. As companions.

But recently, there have been quite a few times where I've felt that if I keep being so particular, things might not work out.

Until now, I thought that I could only create a comfortable place for myself with people who shared similar values, but I've had more opportunities to realize that if I don't broaden my framework, things won't expand successfully.

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I think people who can vigorously discuss each other's opinions are precious.

Sometimes while laughing.
Sometimes with sharp, piercing eyes.

But people who don't run away from each other
and can speak their own thoughts.

There aren't many people like that.
Even when my flaws are pointed out, I end up respecting them instead.

I think it's precisely because the relationship has grown that we can be in such a relationship.

I used to think that was only possible with people who had similar sensibilities and values.

But since about last year, I've met various people, and I've come to think that it's possible to build such relationships even if our values and ways of perceiving things are different.

Not denying each other, accepting each other while also conveying one's own values.

I think a relationship where you can do that is wonderful.

Just having the desire to do so makes it possible. Even if there are differences.

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Love for different values.

I like this phrase, but I think I was actually just choosing people I felt comfortable with.
But recently, I feel like I've truly understood the goodness of building relationships without worrying about differences in values.

A relationship where you can understand others.
I want to cherish it.

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Sorry for the long post, haha.
It was a day where I thought about such things at various times.

It was a good day!

Thank you for your hard work today as well.
Have a good rest of your day.

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