Isn't it better to talk honestly after a fight?

[What kind of day was yesterday?]
Mizunoto-u year, Hinoe-tora month, Tsuchinoto-inu day.

Although my body was relatively fine, I was feeling a bit off mentally. It was a day where I couldn't shake off my bad mood.

In the evening, I was able to receive acupuncture treatment from my cousin.

When we were talking before, it turned out that my cousin's mentor is also my acupuncture teacher. I had thought it was unusual that they performed things like pulse diagnosis.

I felt that there are many forms of achieving results; some people copy their mentor's methods exactly to get results, while others absorb various knowledge and make it their own to achieve results.

My cousin was the latter.

The mentor's technique is truly masterful. Because it takes too long to master just that, my cousin incorporates various things, and as a result, every time I receive treatment, I get to experience feeling 'better than before!'

This time, too, they straightened me out and left me feeling refreshed.
Also, they told me to try and quit drinking if I can...😅

It seems that for people who touch the body, areas of discomfort are as clear as day.

I felt that it is important not to be too caught up in the mentor's way, but also to have an attitude of absorbing things from various parts of the world in order to grow myself.

[What kind of day is today?]
Mizunoto-u year, Hinoe-tora month, Tsuchinoto-i day.

It continues to be a day with strong negative energy.
This will continue for the next week.

However,
・It is a lucky day to start a new business
・Going to hot springs or saunas is lucky

[From the 12 areas of life]

I have been introducing my mentor, but I realized that the link wasn't working😅

Please let me introduce them again!

Today is about the third cycle, 'Spouse/Partnership'.

I think it was even before I married my wife, but we made a promise to 'resolve fights within the same day'.

Actually, yesterday, partly because I was feeling down, I took it out on my wife, but we were able to resolve it by talking about 'what the cause was.' (She let me resolve it💦)

I am truly the type to dwell on things, so I am grateful to my wife for suggesting we make this a promise.

Also, because of this promise, I feel that 'talking things out' has become a matter of course.

I think there are things that are hard to talk about even with a partner. Like money, for example.

How should we handle that? What do we want to do from here on out? Looking back, I feel that discussing these things became an opportunity for growth in managing our family team (or company, depending on the family).

Truly, a crisis is an opportunity.

I believe this kind of discussion is also important at work. However, in order to carry it out outside the home in a professional setting, I think it's also important to have it established within the home first. (Though it might be the other way around, too.)

If I start diving into things this deeply, it will go on forever, so I'll stop here for today.

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