[The words you created] Is verbalization an "ability"?

The term "verbalization ability."
It is often used, and
I have written about it several times in this series so far, but

Of course,
I feel that there are people who are good at "verbalization"
and those who are not.

This difference in "verbalization,"
is this an innate difference?

When do people learn "verbalization"?

Let's change our perspective a little.

What kind of people are good at verbalization?
For me,

・People who think about things deeply
・People who put their thoughts into words rather than leaving them as they are
・People who have many opportunities to explain things to others
・People who invite others or accept invitations

I feel that there are often characteristics like these.

In other words,
I feel that the influence of experience and habits is significant.

Rather than being good at it from the start,
I think it is something you get used to
little by little as you use it.

Words are also influenced by those around you

Whether there are people around you who talk a lot,
what kind of words you are exposed to, etc.
If you think from the perspective that "verbalization" is
greatly influenced by experience and habits,
couldn't it be said that it is
closer to a skill or habit
rather than an "ability"?

I think it is important not to just end it with "I'm not good at it,"
but to slowly eliminate that sense of being苦手 (not good at it).

First of all,
increase the number of times and opportunities
to put things into words (to converse).
Just by doing that, you should be able to grow naturally.

Since I don't have much "verbalization ability,"
I think there is also the idea of developing verbalization ability before talking,

but for me,
I would like you to start by thinking about
how you can make talking more fun.

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[A word from 🐸]

I love talking.
But I also love listening to people talk.

I feel that it is fun to
happily translate what someone has said,
or express it in different words if they are hesitant.

If you cannot find your own words
or things you want to talk about,
I think it is also good to first listen to the other person's story
and talk
along that theme.

Otamakichi:
Thank you for reading until the end, tadpole!
Look forward to the next time~

Kokopa:
I've seen many people who get nervous no matter who they are talking to.

In some cases, it seems that some people even get nervous
when talking to their own family.

Finding someone you don't feel nervous around, or
becoming friends with people you don't need to feel nervous with
(like friends online),
is a good way to increase your opportunities for conversation, don't you think?