[For those struggling with photo fraud on matching apps] Tips for meeting cute girls I learned after meeting 50 people

Hello, this is Kobito-yaro.

Everyone, you want to meet cute girls on matching apps, right?

Sorry for being blunt right away.
But, I think that's true for most men.

You take the time, dress up, style your hair, pick a place, and go all the way there to meet them.

And then you arrive at the meeting spot and think,
"Wait, doesn't she look quite different from her photos?"
If that happens, your mood naturally drops.

Of course, I'm not trying to say that the other person is bad or that girls who aren't cute have no value, or talk about such platitudes.

It's just that the first entry point for matching apps is the photo.
You go to meet them because you saw the photo and thought, "She looks nice," so if the gap with reality is too big, your brain just bugs out.

I have met about 50 people on matching apps so far.

There were cute girls.

There were even girls who made me think, "Wait, is she cuter than in her photos?"

Conversely, there were times when I froze for a second at the meeting spot.
"Wait, is this the right person I'm supposed to meet?"
Like that.

It's really rude, but in my heart, I was doing a backflip.
Based on my own experiences, I will teach you how to attract cute girls.

1. Girls who properly post their faces

This is a must.

There is no point in not posting photos if your face is cute.
Not posting photos is like saying you aren't cute.

Of course, I understand there are various circumstances like preventing identity exposure or work-related reasons.

But, I want to meet a cute girl.

If so, pinning faint hopes on a girl whose face you don't know is just gambling.

Only a profile shot.
Only a shot from behind.
Only the mouth.
Only with a mask.

Only atmospheric photos taken from a distance.

Looking at girls like this, the old me used to think:

"No, the vibe is cute, so she might be cute in person."

"Maybe there's a pattern where she's actually super cute but just isn't showing her face."

"Maybe there's a chance."

But, usually, there isn't.

A "maybe" is usually a "no way."

Girls with cute faces properly post their faces.
This is really true.

At the very least, if you want to meet a girl who is cute in her photos, you should choose someone whose face you can clearly see.

2. Girls who are cute from the front
If the angle is different, the impression of the face changes a lot.

This really changes a lot.

Photos taken from an angle above.

Photos only from the side.

Photos hiding the mouth.

Photos hiding the face line with hair.

Photos all from the same angle.
This is just dangerous.

Of course, she is cute from that angle.
I won't deny that.

But when you actually meet, you will see her from the front too.

You won't be dating her by only looking at her profile.
You won't be talking to her while fixed at a 45-degree angle either.
So, choose a girl who is cute in photos from the front.

Girls who are cute from the front are strong.
They aren't hiding with weird angles.
They aren't hiding parts of their face.
They are properly cute from the front.
This is quite reliable.

Conversely, if all photos are from the same angle or parts of the face are always hidden,
you should think, "Oh, she doesn't want to show anything other than this angle."


3. Girls who post multiple photos
You can't tell anything from just one.
You really can't tell anything.

There used to be a segment called "Miracle Shot" on London Hearts, and that is truly amazing.

When the angle, light, and expression align, a human being becomes a completely different person.
In other words, it is dangerous to skyrocket your expectations based on just one photo.

Even if that one photo is super cute, you can't judge if that is her usual appearance or a miracle shot.

Only the first photo is abnormally cute.

But there are no photos from the second one onwards.

Or, the ones from the second onwards are scenery, food, a shot from behind, or a mysterious cafe latte.

This is quite scary.

It is much easier to judge girls who post multiple photos.

Front-facing photo.
Profile.
Full-body shot.
Photo with friends.
Photo from a trip.
Photo with a natural expression.

When there are multiple photos like this, the gap with reality decreases.

There are multiple photos, and all of them are properly cute.
This is the most reassuring.

Conversely, for girls who are betting everything on just one photo, you need to go meet them with some resolve.

If that one photo is the real deal, it's the best.
But if it was a miracle shot, your soul will leave your body at the meeting spot.

Faint hopes usually don't exceed expectations

I've talked this much, but when you're pinning your hopes on faint expectations, they never really exceed those expectations, do they?
"Her face is hidden, but the vibe is cute."
"Her profile is cute, so her front must be cute too."
"There's only one photo, but this one is cute, so it's fine."
"She's wearing a mask, but her eyes are cute, so it'll work."

At times like this, you're usually imagining things in a way that's convenient for you.

You are automatically filling in the parts you can't see in the photo with your own brain to make them look cute.

And then, the moment you meet, you are confronted with reality.
I've done it many times too.

While heading to the meeting spot,
"No, there's a chance for this one."
The times I think that, it usually doesn't work out.

Conversely, truly cute girls are properly cute from the photo stage.
Their face is properly shown.
They are cute from the front too.
There are multiple photos.
The impression doesn't change much in any of the photos.
Girls like this are often cute when you actually meet them.

If you want to meet cute girls, don't expect too much from the parts you can't see.

Don't automatically fill in the parts you can't tell from the photo to make them look cute.
This is quite important.

Summary
People who are troubled by photo fraud on matching apps should first look at the photos properly.
The points to look at are simple.
1. Girls who properly post their faces.
2. Girls who are properly cute from the front.
3. Girls who post multiple photos.
These three things.

Of course, this doesn't mean you can avoid photo fraud 100%.
Photos can be enhanced as much as you want.

There is editing.
There are angles.
There is lighting.
But, just by looking at these three things, I think the accident rate will drop significantly.

If you want to meet cute girls, don't bet too much on faint hopes.

Don't dream about girls whose faces you don't know.

Don't judge only by the profile.

Don't bet your life on a miracle shot.

Just by doing this, things will change quite a bit.

Examine the photos and go have fun with lots of cute girls!