🎉Solving Problems: How to Deal with [What Suits You, What You Like, and Who You Want to Be]👗

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I've been talking to clients who come to my self-questioning fashion workshops lately, and I've noticed something.

[What suits you, what you like, and who you want to be] are all usually a little different for everyone...! I've realized that...!

"Why don't you just wear the clothes you like?"🍰

Fashionable people in the world all say this: "Why don't you just wear the clothes you like?"

That is true, but fashion problems are complicated after all. It's easy to get worried, isn't it?😭

Everyone is struggling

The worries of the girls who come to see me are generally like this: ↓

That's right. Even if you are wearing clothes you like, clothes that suit you, or clothes that make you feel like who you want to be, you still feel a bit uneasy...!

I can see it... I can see everyone nodding so hard their necks might snap off...!!I can see you all headbanging like visual kei fans...🔮! We could generate electricity from that headbanging! How very ecological!

This time, I would like to introduce how to effectively incorporate [what suits you], [what you like], and [who you want to be] for those of you who feel this way.

God hasn't forbidden anything

Yes, as a major premise, God has not forbidden anything—not what you like, what suits you, or who you want to be.However, if you mix them all up, there is a risk of creating a "subpar outfit." This was my own struggle for many years.

Here, let's thoroughly self-question about ourselves!

First, let's take stock of my [who I want to be, what I like, and what suits me] in words.

First, let's take our time and write down your "who you want to be, what you like, and what suits you" on paper! For example, here is how it looks for me. ↓

Wow, that's unexpectedly all over the place. I hope you can get some hints from my solution this time.

1. Write down "who you want to be"!

First, let's clarify the image of who you want to be. My ideal image looks like this.

Oh wow, this is so cool...!A monotone outfit with silver accessories, and bright red makeup! It feels strong and creative! I thought it was the perfect outfit, but when I actually tried wearing it, it looked like this.

It was a very lovely outfit, but it doesn't seem to suit me very well...! This time, I want to try getting a little closer to "what suits me."

2. Mix "what suits you" into "who you want to be"!

I changed the parts that didn't look good due to my natural charms (like body type and skin tone) while keeping the"cool style" as it was.Hmm, this feels good! While the strength remains, it somehow manages to flatter my figure.

3. Add "what you like" to "who you want to be" and "what suits you"

Now, I'll add the bags and accessories that I truly love.A GUCCI bag with a dog face on it, and accessories made by a friend. I love colorful and vibrant items in both color and design. I think purple, green, or orange nails would be nice, and red socks are great because they're cute.

After going through this process, I ended up with a fashion style that is surprisingly "me."

Looking at it calmly as a fashion stylist,I think it was more sophisticated before I added "what I like."However, what I value is a person's emotions and state of mind.I feel much more "like myself" when I'm wearing the things I love.

So, here is the solution for "what suits you, what you like, and who you want to be"🎉

Write down the image of "who you want to be," keep that image but change the silhouette or colors to ones that "suit you," and then add "what you like"!!

That is my recent styling method.

The rulebook varies from person to person📖

This time, I shared a way of thinking to incorporate everything, but it is also perfectly fine to coordinate with 100% of who you want to be, 100% of what you like, and 100% of what suits you. (In fact, this often looks more cohesive in terms of fashion.)

This is an important point, but if you like it, it is okay to wear clothes that "don't suit you."

In reality, I also prioritize what I like and who I want to be over what suits me when choosing clothes. Even if I show my arms, have a tight waist, or wear black that makes my face look dull, it is completely fine as long as I am satisfied with it☺️ It is not for others to say, "That doesn't suit you, you should stop wearing it." Your clothes should be chosen by you and for you.

However, if you "self-question" and feel a bit uneasy about your fashion, please give this a try♡ Just doing the initial "inventory check in words" should make you feel much clearer👗

Bonus: My "What Suits Me" and "What I Like"

Having worked in apparel for a long time, I have been told by seniors and stylists about the fashion that suits my appearance for years. It is beige tones with gold, curved accessories. It is not that I don't like them, but it is not the vibe I want to have right now. ↓

And this is the vibe I like. Patterned items and bold animal motifs! I could just go ahead with what I like, but right now I feel like prioritizing "who I want to be." ↓

Just by feeling within myself, "Oh, I want to be like this," "This kind of thing suits me," and "I like this kind of thing," I feel much clearer.

Everyone, please try creating your own outfits that suit you, that you like, and that reflect who you want to be in a fantasy closet♡

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