To the next stage.
Good morning!
It is March starting today.
My eyes have been feeling itchy lately...
Could it be that I've developed hay fever!?
I'm a little worried! Haha
Today, I will talk about "things that happen before moving to the next stage."
If these things start happening,
it is a sign that you are about to move to the next stage!
So please rest assured.
That is, people leaving your life.
Not being understood by those around you,
or having heartless things said to you, making you feel like they've drifted away...
Have you ever felt that way?
When this happens, it means your values and
the world you see have become different from before.
"Has this person changed somehow?"
The people around you who feel that way
will drift away from you.
I have also experienced this
several times over the past five years.
The first time was when I got divorced.
Just like a wave receding, all at once,
friends and acquaintances I had been close with
disappeared. Haha
And when I started my business
and it began to take off,
friends who had been supporting me
and people I trusted left.
When I took a step toward independence,
when my business started going well,
when my income started to increase,
people always leave at times like these.
Honestly, it hurts when this happens.
It is simply sad...
"What did I do wrong?" or things like that
you end up thinking about, don't you?
But although it is sad, when this happens,
it is proof that your values
have changed so significantly
that the people around you cannot understand them.
It is sad to see them go, but
do not chase after them.
Even in times like these, there are people who understand and support you,
so you will be fine.
As an aside,
I have a song that I always listen to
when sad things like this happen.
Rachel Platten's "Fight Song"
In the lyrics,
"Even if no one believes in me, I won't give up.
Because I still have strength left"
it says.
Please give it a listen if you'd like♪
It will surely cheer you up.
Now, let's believe in ourselves and move forward today too!