My sister who lost her child

No. 461 The story introduced this time

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The story introduced this time is a post, likely by an older sister, describing how her brother-in-law supported her sister when she suffered physical and mental distress after losing her child.

There was a YouTube video based on this story, so I will introduce it as well.

Regarding the time of posting

Past logsI confirmed the post from September 15, 2017, from what is published in the.

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I will post it including the responses.
The poster's parts are in bold.

308: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 14:27:01.77 ID:EvM1qdzF.net
My sister lost her child to illness.

My sister, who was a teacher, would often suddenly cry and hug her students at school, and eventually resigned from her teaching position.

After quitting her job, my sister stayed home all day staring at the memorial photo of her deceased child, and her husband, who was also a teacher, made a big decision to push past his parents' opposition and move with my sister to the deep countryside.

The husband continued teaching at a small school with combined elementary and junior high classes that had fewer than 30 students in total.

While attending a psychosomatic clinic, my sister would occasionally show her face at the school of 30 students and interact with the children.

It seems the husband explained the situation to the principal and the parents and begged them with such intensity that he was practically kneeling, and they gave their permission.

I heard later that he thought it would be difficult to persuade people at a large school in the city because there were so many of them.

This was a story from 30 years ago.

My sister now has grandchildren.

The husband makes it a laughing matter, but the way my sister looks at her husband even now, decades later,
I feel is filled with love.

I am sure that even in places I don't know about, my husband has devoted himself to my sister.

Me? Yes, I will be in my 60s soon, but I am single.

309: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 14:32:17.52 ID:EJby0TyL.net
(´；ω；｀)

310: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 14:43:14.86 ID:HJfX9V+g.net
I cried.

311: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 14:49:19.90 ID:4HAmziuy.net
>>308
That is a sad story.

312: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 14:56:29.62 ID:EvM1qdzF.net
>>311
It was truly a living hell at the time.

I think it was thanks to her husband that it didn't turn into the worst possible nightmare.

Looking back at that time, it was shocking that my bright and energetic sister had become a hollow shell.

She was just existing as a person, her emotions were almost at zero.

At first, her husband did everything, including her meals and taking care of her bathroom needs.

After a while, my mother and I, who learned of the situation, helped out.

313: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/: 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:07:18.18 ID:agwRGeuh.net
Why don't you write 'brother-in-law' or 'niece/nephew'?
Can't you write it?

314: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/: 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:17:21.74 ID:SVpe4TQt.net
You can tell even if you don't write it, right?

315: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/: 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:18:11.77 ID:EvM1qdzF.net[3/5]
>>313
Is that something that should be forced?
Isn't it something to be decided by each person's own judgment?

316: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/: 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:21:47.06 ID:K0+V/nWL.net
I did wonder if they were really in their 50s

317: Fish-holding nameless person @\(^o^)/: 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:24:21.63 ID:Zdiq0Meu.net
>>313
I thought there might be such emotional distance that you wouldn't even write 'brother-in-law' even if it's by marriage
The same goes for nephew or niece

318: Anonymous user @ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:31:05.06 ID:5InX92Xx.net
Your sister's husband is a wonderful person.

320: Anonymous user @ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:36:03.41 ID:EvM1qdzF.net[4/5]
Sentences can be either reports or expressions of personal feelings.

My sister's nephew died ← This does not work as a sentence.

My sister's daughter died ← This is the standard form for a sentence.

My nephew died ← This makes it unclear whether my sister lost her child or my brother lost his child.

It gets resolved later when the word 'husband' appears, but to make it easier to understand, I wrote 'my sister's child...' at the beginning.
Brother-in-law ← This is a personal impression, but it felt cold as a word.

I usually call her husband by his name.

Rather than writing 'brother-in-law,' I used the word 'husband' based on my personal image of him as the husband my sister loves.

It is not a report, but a sentence expressing my own feelings.

321: Anonymous user @ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 15:39:55.74 ID:EvM1qdzF.net[5/5]
Correction: My sister's daughter died (X) My sister's son died (O)

327: Anonymous user @ 2017/09/15 (Fri) 16:13:43.68 ID:p8K2+g4m.net
That must be a real nightmare for the sister's husband.

Video

I would like to introduce some videos that were created based on this story.

Omoide no Yukkuri 2ch-sama

Nikorun-sama

(2ch) Himatsubushi Channel 'LAN'-sama

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