The Secret to Opening Someone's Heart in Communication Is to "Use Your Facial Expressions"

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When you are talking to people, are you conscious of what your face looks like?
Are you aware of it?


"Conveying" and "getting through" are different.
How can you achieve communication that "gets through"?
The secret lies in "using your facial expressions."


If you are struggling with human relationships, feel uncomfortable about conveying things, or are trying to improve your communication style, please be sure to read this article!

◾️Communication that opens the other person's heart

"To start with the conclusion..."
"There are three points. The first is..."

In terms of conveying information, what we are taught at school and in companies is how to convey things logically and accurately.
However, even if you can do that, it is meaningless if the other person does not open their heart and take action.

In fact, being overly articulate can cause the other person to shut down.


That is truly a state of "conveying" but not "getting through."
So, how can you make the other person open their heart?

It is to use your facial expressions before you speak.
It is to intentionally create your facial expressions.

Regarding facial expressions, be especially conscious of your eyebrows.
I really want you to try this: your eyebrows move in surprisingly different ways when you are smiling, surprised, or feeling apologetic.


Since people obtain information visually, if you can convey your emotions using your eyebrows before you speak, you can already open the other person's heart.

Also, besides "facial expressions," using "gestures" is also effective.
In particular, gestures like "quickly raising your eyebrows" or "tilting your head" can show the other person that you have no hostility.


Whether communication goes well or not ultimately depends on whether you can get the other person to like you.

No matter how articulate you are, if you make the other person feel unpleasant, you lose.

Even if you are not good with words, if you can get the other person to like you, you win.
That is why when you are conveying something, it is good to intentionally be conscious of what facial expressions or gestures you start with.

As a result of good communication, I want to aim for the other person to go beyond "understand" and say "agree."
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