✨ "The Happiness of Marriage, The Happiness of Not Marrying" Introduction ①

🌿 Healing and Marriage, Forms of Adult Love

People feel healed when they connect with someone else.
One form of this is "marriage," but there is not just one form of happiness.
There are relationships that involve marriage, and there are relationships where people stay close without taking the form of marriage.
Perhaps what is important is that the two people feel comfortable.

First, marriage in your 20s is filled with dreams and hopes.
You envision a future with the person you love and walk the life that is about to begin together.
The excitement of love and the anticipation of the future become a source of healing for the heart.

When you reach your 30s, the meaning of marriage changes a little.
As you gain work and life experience, you begin to seek a relationship where you can feel secure.
Feeling at ease when together, being able to be your true self.
Such a relationship of trust becomes a gentle healing.

Marriage in your 40s takes on a stronger meaning as partners supporting each other through life.
It is a relationship that understands each other's values and lives, not just the ideals of youth.
I can walk through life with this person.
That sense of security creates a deep healing.

Marriage in your 50s is a calm relationship with room in the heart.
Just eating together or spending the same time together fills the heart.
The time spent sharing life becomes a gentle healing.

And marriage in your 60s is a warm encounter that colors life.
Two people who have walked a long life meet and spend the remaining time cherishing each other.
That might be a marriage that is like a reward from life.

On the other hand, there are also relationships that do not choose the form of marriage.
Continuing a relationship as lovers while cherishing each other's individual lives.
It is a relationship of staying close with a natural distance, without forcing a specific form.

Eating together.
Feeling relieved when you meet.
Having time to laugh together.

Even just that can heal a person's heart.

There are those for whom marriage is happiness, and
there are those for whom a relationship as lovers is comfortable.

What is important is not the form, but
being able to feel, "My heart is at peace when I am with this person."

Perhaps people find warmth in life
by connecting their hearts with someone else.

No matter what the form,
if there is kindness and security there,
then it must surely be an irreplaceable and precious relationship.

Tomorrow, I plan to deliver more details on marriage by age group 🤵👰‍♀️
and the day after tomorrow, the choice of a relationship without marriage.

I look forward to sharing it with you 🌸

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