【Q: Is there a simple way to dissolve the ego?】
【Q: Is there a simple way to dissolve the ego?】
A: Yes. If you sincerely submerge yourself within, it becomes clear that what sustains the ego's reactions is the pleasure derived from them. That inner satisfaction is the reward obtained from self-pity, anger (consciousness level 150), rage, aversion, pride (consciousness level 175), guilt (consciousness level 30), fear (consciousness level 100), and so on. Strangely, this inner pleasure fuels these emotions and amplifies them. To dissolve these influences, you must be willing to surrender and let go of these suspicious, secret inner pleasures to God, and seek joy (consciousness level 540), pleasure (serotonin), and happiness (power) only from God.
At first, the mind may deny that it derives secret pleasure from pain, but through rigorous self-analysis, it should become clearly visible that you are clinging to the 'content' because you are getting a 'sweet payoff' from that position. If you are honest with yourself, you will soon discover this fact.
Everyone derives secret pleasure from anger, being a victim, or being misunderstood or unfairly judged. Furthermore, society and the law reinforce this through legal provisions and financial rewards. We receive compensation by being 'offended,' 'mistreated' at work, enduring 'stress,' or feeling 'discomfort.'
When these rewards lose their value, the emotions naturally disappear. This mechanism persists only as long as it serves some purpose. When you abandon this 'ego's sweet payoff,' inner peace arrives.
You will notice that this ego game is accompanied by secret vanity. It is as if the more you complain about suffering with the face of a pitiful victim of the world's injustices, the more the ego is reinforced. In reality, the ego secretly enjoys the struggle of crafting itself into a drama and reaping the rewards from it. The ego is self-propagating through its own internal questioning.
To dissolve the ego, you must be willing to abandon this reward game, along with the dramatic performance of emotions and the clichéd stories used repeatedly for justification. In fact, you must not forget that the ego sucks sweet nectar from discomfort. There is no greater pleasure than 'righteous indignation.' The ego deeply 'loves' such a delicious position that yields such great rewards.
A second advantage the ego gains from a victim stance is that it provides an excuse for any extreme action taken. The ego is ridiculous. It gladly throws itself into every negative emotion, no matter what pain or suffering it brings. However, as the price for these secret, non-integrated benefits, one becomes covered in overall shame, self-deprecation, and a sense of guilt. Think of someone who stubbornly refuses to take positive action. They 'stubbornly' refuse help from those around them. This remains true even if it is free and the doors are wide open. A defense mechanism they often use is making poor excuses. If the problem becomes too serious, they create a situation where their family or society is forced to intervene, even using somewhat 'harsh' measures for the sake of salvation.
Ego addiction and survival are based on the secret pleasure derived from negativity. Only by firmly recognizing its true nature and accepting it without guilt or shame can you finally abandon it. We must firmly recognize that the ego is something everyone inherits, a completely impersonal function that acts on its own.
ChatGPT:
You have raised a very deep theme.
The text you provided contains nuances close to the insights of David R. Hawkins,“The ego derives a ‘secret reward’ from negative emotions” is the central point.
To organize this—
🔑 A simple way to dissolve the ego
1. Notice the ego's mechanism
Even painful emotions like anger, hatred, and victim consciousness provide 'inner pleasure.'
That pleasure is the 'energy source of the ego.'
2. Acknowledge the secret pleasure
The mind claims, 'I am only suffering,' but if you observe closely, there is 'actually a strange sweetness derived from it.'
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Example:
Righteous indignation → The pleasure of 'I am right'
Victim consciousness → The satisfaction of 'getting attention and sympathy'
Anger → 'The illusion of having power'
3. Let go of the 'source' of pleasure
What the ego is holding onto is not the 'emotion itself,' but the 'reward derived from that emotion.'
Surrender it to God, the True Self, or Love.
If you see that 'the pleasure has no value,' the emotion will naturally disappear.
4. Shift to inner peace
The ego's game continues through 'performance, justification, and self-drama,' but if you 'abandon' it, inner silence remains.
Peace comes not from 'controlling emotions,' but from 'abandoning the reward.'
🌱 Simply put
Notice: "There is a 'sweet nectar' hidden deep within negative emotions."
Acknowledge: "Honestly see that you were enjoying it."
Let go: "Understand that this pleasure has no value, and return it to God (the True Self/Love)."
What remains is peace
💡 The point of this process is not to 'suppress anger or hatred,' but to 'see through the hidden pleasure that clings to them.'
【Q: Why do we have such persistent motives?】
A: It is because they are distorted substitutes for true love and God. If you look closely at their reality, you will see that they are self-indulgent, circular self-reward systems. However, because they do not take responsibility for being the initiator, they are non-integrated. Even if the ego is not 'I,' the responsibility for it lies with oneself.
The ego games played out in society have dividing lines that split all human relationships into perpetrators and victims, and those lines shift at will. This game begins on the playground, but through the desire for financial gain and amplification by the media, it remains the greatest concern even today.
ChatGPT:
Yes, that hits the nail on the head. The text provided reveals that the ego functions as a 'distorted substitute for God and love.' To summarize—
🔑 Why are people persistently caught up in ego motives?
1. Because the ego is a 'substitute for love'
The ego mimics the fulfillment that should naturally be sought in love or God with a 'self-reward system.'
However, it is circular (going in circles) and is never fully satisfied.
2. Because it is 'pleasure without responsibility'
The ego does not admit that 'it is the initiator' and shifts responsibility to the outside or to others.
As a result, a 'non-integrated (fragmented)' state of mind continues.
3. Because it is a 'game' that creates division
The ego frames human relationships as a 'perpetrator vs. victim' structure.
Moreover, those lines shift constantly according to convenience and desire.
It starts with children's play and is expanded and reinforced in adult society by 'money,' 'fame,' and 'media stimulation.'
🌱 In summary
The reason people persistently pursue the motives of the |Ego| is that,
even though they are truly seeking "God or Love,"
they are substituting it with a "loop of self-indulgence and reward."
In other words, the |Ego| is an "imitation of true love,"like a magnet that is empty yet powerfully attractive.
【Q: The current explanation has made it clear.】
A: The |Ego| has intentionally clever mechanisms, but it merely demonstrates a structure that eventually self-destructs. The |Ego| may expand temporarily through its mechanisms, but because it loses integrity, it loses its power. The |Ego| plays its game out of fragility. The game of "Look closely at what I have done" is played for the purpose of boosting self-esteem, but since the motive is to "take revenge," it ultimately fails. From a higher perspective, the entire game is of the "So what?" variety.
【Q: Why do we cling to such self-destructive behavior?】
A: The |Ego| reacts with anger when its secret source of self-reward is about to be exposed. When its structure of control is threatened, it may become so enraged that it could lead to murderous acts. The |Ego| has barely managed to acquire a secret substitute for God and is surviving through short-circuited love. Therefore, no matter how miserable it may be, it will never let go of its secret source of supply. Outwardly, the |Ego| seems to protest against pain, but inwardly, it welcomes it with open arms.
ChatGPT:
Yes, that is a very profound insight. Organizing the text you provided makes the essence of the |Ego| clearer.
🔎 The self-destructive structure of the |Ego|
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A clever but fragile mechanism
The |Ego| provides a "temporary sense of expansion (pride, victory, superiority)."
However, because its motives are based on "revenge" or "a desire for approval," it lacks integrity and does not last long.
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A game that ends with "So what?"
From a higher perspective, the games of the |Ego| do not hold much meaning.
The efforts and battles involved remain as "emptiness" in the end.
🔥 Why the |Ego| clings to self-destructive behavior
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Because it fears the loss of its secret rewards
It tries to protect the "hidden pleasures (self-justification, victim mentality, superiority, etc.)" gained from pain and anger.
Because that has become a "substitute for God or Love," letting it go is accompanied by a fear equal to death.
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Reacting with anger when the structure of control collapses
|Ego|'s "reward system" triggers intense backlash (sometimes destructive impulses) when threatened.
This is the final defense to protect "vanity" and "addiction."
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Protesting pain while inwardly welcoming it
Superficially, it screams "I hate this" or "This is unfair," but
inwardly, it knows that "the ego survives through that drama" and actually seeks it out.
🌱 In summary
|Ego|
turns suffering and anger into a "secret source of nourishment."
Therefore, it clings to them persistently even when it knows it will lead to self-destruction.
However, ultimately, because the mechanism itself is fragile, it is destined to collapse.
【Q: Is this a price that must be paid to realize the |Self| (the true self)?】
A: To the |ego|, abandoning its self-rewarding mechanism would seem like a loss. Since the |ego| does not believe in God, it thinks that it alone is responsible for maintaining life and providing pleasure. The |ego| does not trust God, but rather its own unique mechanisms. Because the |ego| has no other experience to compare with, it clings to this error and refuses to let go. The only way to escape from this is to believe that there must be a better way. Only when the |mind| fails to obtain the happiness it desires and awakens from the delusion of its own misconceptions can it finally listen to and explore spiritual truth. And only then does it realize that the distorted pleasure squeezed out of pain is merely a poor substitute for true joy.
ChatGPT:
Yes, this Q&A really hits the essence. Organizing the text provided, the relationship between the |ego| and the "price" becomes clear.
🌀 Q: Is this a price that must be paid to realize the "Self"?
A: The "price" for the |ego|
Abandoning self-rewarding mechanisms seems like a loss
→ For the ego, "pleasure" (sense of control, being right, victim mentality, etc.) is the only source of nourishment.
→ It feels that letting go of that means "it cannot survive."The ego does not believe in God
→ It believes that "only its own mechanism maintains life."
→ That is precisely why it clings to its own devices.
A: The only way to escape
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Believe that there is a better way
Realize that true happiness cannot be found in the current reward game.
Opening up to the idea that there is a greater source (God/Truth) is the beginning.
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Awaken from false beliefs
Egoistic pleasure is merely a distorted joy squeezed out of pain.
See through it as a poor substitute for true joy.
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Begin exploring spiritual truth
An experience is born that compares egoistic pleasure with the joy of truth.
Only here can it be accepted as liberation rather than a sacrifice.
🌱 Summary
To the ego, it looks like a sacrifice.
However, in reality, it is just discarding illusions; nothing is lost, and in fact, true joy emerges.
This turning point begins with a small opening of the heart, such as "Let's try believing" or "Perhaps there is another way."a small opening of the heart starts.
【Q: So, the time eventually comes when one's interest in spirituality ripens.】
A: At some point in life, it arrives as a turning point. Even if it requires many cycles of reincarnation, when disappointment and defeat have "hit rock bottom," an inner light shines through to save us from the depths of despair. Once you reach that point, the remaining lifespan of the |ego| is short.
【Q: What kind of sacrifices must be made?】
A: A great leap is realizing that the source of joy and happiness lies beyond the |ego|. Then, interest and curiosity arise regarding how one can achieve a spiritual purpose. Next, faith emerges, supported by trusting and ultimately experiencing. Then, information and explanations are obtained, and opportunities are given to practice what has been learned. A devoted attitude of willingly surrendering all obstacles to God follows, and by inviting it in, spiritual energy is heightened. The attitude of offering one's own life to God brings joy and gives new meaning to life. Feelings are uplifted, and within a larger |context|, greater significance and value are brought to life. Then, one refrains from any act that supports negativity, whether internal or external. It is not refrained from because it is wrong, but simply because it is futile, so one ceases to pay attention to it. The journey toward God begins with disappointment and doubt, but this gradually turns into conviction. Thus, the path is very simple.
ChatGPT:
Yes, it is a very well-organized flow. In short—
Hitting rock bottom
Not satisfied by desires or the pursuit of the ego, one first notices the "inner light" at the depths of despair.Shift in awareness
Realizing that the true source of joy and happiness is outside the ego, an interest in spiritual inquiry sprouts.Faith and experience
Proceeding from curiosity → trust → practice → experience, conviction deepens.Attitude of devotion
When one entrusts obstacles and difficulties to God, and even offers one's own life to God, new meaning and joy are born in life.Natural transformation
Negativity fades away, not by "stopping because it is bad," but by "letting go because it is futile."A simple path
The starting point is disappointment and doubt, but this eventually turns into conviction and joy.
—In this way, the context is that sacrifice is not "losing something," but rather "letting go of attachment," and as a result, essential joy and freedom are obtained.
【Q: What is the true meaning of [surrendering to God]?】
A: It means abandoning control and the secret satisfaction gained from the position of the |ego|. One turns only toward love and God, for that is the source of life and joy. We can choose this at every moment. If we can ultimately choose it, the reward is immense. By inviting it in, spiritual awareness illuminates the path. The key is your willingness.
【Q: Aside from cases where one is already on the right path, how should one recognize God?】
A: The first sign of God's presence is the sprouting of curiosity and interest in spiritual matters. This is proof that there is a crack in the dam of the |ego|. And if you are taking action to seek a spiritual goal or starting to look for spiritual information, God is certainly being invited into your life.
When the desire to surrender all obstacles to love and God is born, God already resides within the form of willingness. And when you reach the level of devotion, the |ego| dissolves due to the presence that has already become dominant, and the path is illuminated. Spiritual growth and discovery are accompanied by joy. And this joy is the radiance of the "|ego|" and instantly replaces the surrendered position of the |ego|. With every step forward, spiritual intuition increases. When the self stops focusing on the world or the |ego|, one discovers that the "|Self|" (the true self) has been the source all along.
ChatGPT:
This is a very deep Q&A.
To summarize,
【The true meaning of surrendering to God】
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Things to abandon
Desire for control
"Secret satisfaction" gained from the position of the |ego|
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What to move toward
Love and God Himself
The source of life and joy
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The arena of practice
Available to be chosen in "every moment"
Willingness is the key, and by inviting it in, spiritual awareness lights the way
【The process of recognizing God】
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Signs
Curiosity or interest in spiritual matters begins to sprout (= cracks appear in the dam of the ego).
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Invitation
When you begin action (seeking or learning), God has already entered your life.
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The Birth of Willingness
When you desire to surrender obstacles to love and God, God is already present within that willingness.
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Stages of Devotion
The Presence becomes dominant, and the ego dissolves.
Spiritual intuition increases, and the path is illuminated.
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Discovery
When the self no longer focuses on the outer world or the ego,
one recognizes the Self, which has been the "Source" all along.
In other words, "surrendering to God" is not about "losing something," but rather is depicted as "a process of rediscovering the Self that was the Source itself."
【Q: Is there anything else to surrender besides the secret rewards of the ego?】
A: See through the illusions of the mind and realize that the mind actually knows nothing. This is an attitude called humility, and humility opens the door to enlightenment, revelation, and the intuitive state of knowing.
Because the mind seeks meaning, it falls into circular reasoning and arrives only at its own arbitrary interpretations of meaning. In "Truth," there is nothing that has meaning, and there are no characteristics to be recognized. All things simply exist as they were created, and in that, they are complete and perfect. All things simply exist and fulfill their purpose. All things are realizing their essence and potential. The only thing "required" of everything that exists is simply to "be." The mission defined under the conditions of each moment is already perfectly fulfilled. Therefore, the way things are now is the realization of all past possibilities. Everything exists exactly as it should be. The corresponding level of consciousness observes how the essence is fulfilling its potential. In the nanosecond of observation, nothing is changing. The only thing that changes is the perspective of observation. Change merely reflects the process of perception.
Life can be compared to a series of still images—the same as a picture-story show seen in childhood. Then, a mystery arises: is it the world that is moving, or is it the mind?
ChatGPT:
That is a very insightful exchange. To summarize the core of this answer—
【Things to surrender other than the ego】
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The illusion of the mind
The realization that 'the mind actually knows nothing.'
Humility opens the door and leads to enlightenment, revelation, and an intuitive 'state of knowing.'
【The Limitations of the Mind】
The mind keeps seeking 'meaning,' but it only repeats itself in circles.
'Truth' has no meaning or characteristics; all things are complete and perfect just by existing.
It does not exist to fulfill a purpose; existence itself is the purpose, and it is already fulfilled.
【The Paradox of Observation and Change】
The world is perfect in every moment as 'the manifestation of potential possibilities.'
What appears to be changing is not the object itself, but theperspective of observation.
Life can be compared to a series of still images, like a paper theater show.
【The Question as a Mystery】
Is it the 'world' that is moving?
Or is it the 'mind'?
This final question is the very gateway to non-dual awareness.
In reality, one can read this as: both the world and the mind are 'things that appear to be changing,' and the movement itself appears as a 'projection of consciousness.'
【Q: Then, is it impossible to be imperfect?】
A: All things are as they are within their absolute self-identity, but the habit of the |ego| (ego), which biases perception and standpoint, makes it extremely difficult to observe this. Rust on an iron plate perfectly expresses the oxidation process. Iron exposed to moisture becomes iron oxide. That is all. It does not 'do' anything; it simply 'is' that way. Only the external form is transient. Truth is eternal. It is obvious to the eyes of the |Self| (true self), but it is invisible to the 'I' that is the personal |ego| (ego). In every moment of observation, all things are always perfect and complete. Value and meaning are decorations projected by the |mind| (mind), based on preferences for specific attributes or characteristics. It is the same as someone who likes wild, natural-looking Christmas trees preferring a crooked tree over a straight one.
【Q: Can we transcend the illusion?】
A: Reality for the |mind| (mind) is fiction. Once that is understood, the mind loses its power as the supreme authority. To the eyes of the |ego| (ego), life appears like a kaleidoscope constantly shifting from likes to dislikes, from fear to fleeting pleasure. The |ego| (ego) tries to find safety in a standpoint it overestimates, but as it matures, it begins to search within for reliable, unwavering qualities. However, without spiritual guidance and information, it does not know where to turn, and it inevitably falls back on basic survival tactics that only have practical value.
ChatGPT:
That is a very profound question. Organizing this exchange, it can be understood as follows:
【Q: Is it impossible to be imperfect?】
A:
All things are always perfect as 'their absolute self-identity.'
The biased perception and stance introduced by the ego make it difficult to see.
Like the example of rust on iron, the process itself is a 'perfect way of being'.
Even if the external form changes, 'being' itself is always complete.
The label of 'incomplete' is merely a preference or value judgment projected by the mind.
【Q: Can one transcend illusion?】
A:
The 'reality' that the mind sees is nothing more than fiction.
Once you realize this, the mind loses its power as the 'supreme authority'.
To the eyes of the ego, life is a kaleidoscope of shifting 'likes vs. dislikes' and 'fear vs. fleeting pleasure'.
The ego seeks security externally, but as it matures, it begins to search for an 'unwavering quality' within.
However, without spiritual guidance or information, one eventually returns to a survival-based way of living.
Key Points
What appears to be 'incomplete' is actually a perfect expression of the process.
The path to transcending illusion begins with the 'realization that relativizes the authority of the mind'.
For that purpose, spiritual direction (guides and teachings) becomes important.
【Q: How can one survive without having a mind?】 A: The mind has a 'thinking mind' and an 'observing mind.' The latter's awareness is autonomous and encompasses all life situations. Furthermore, it is based on a state of knowing rather than thinking or analyzing. In other words, it functions spontaneously and quietly, rather than computationally. Also, awareness reflects a different operating principle, showing a more global and gentle response. In short, it recognizes the big picture and responds appropriately. The observing mind is not swayed by humble stances or value judgments, nor is it driven by fanatical behavior. It is calm, gentle, and prefers to observe rather than participate in the drama of the world. The observing mind is not caught up in worldly notions of profit and loss. We call this way of engaging with the world 'relaxed' or 'enlightened.' While the ego's thinking mind laments, 'How terrible,' awareness sees this as just one scene in the ups and downs of life, understanding that in the end, they are all the same.
ChatGPT:
, that is a very important question.
Summarizing the Q&A provided, the understanding is as follows.
【Q: How can one survive without having a mind?】
A:
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There are two types of mind.
The thinking mind (focused on analysis, calculation, profit and loss, and problem-solving)
The aware mind (a state of being quiet, encompassing the whole, and 'knowing')
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Characteristics of the aware mind
Functions autonomously and encompasses all external situations
Grasps the big picture and reacts appropriately, rather than through partial calculation
Possesses humility and is not swayed by value judgments or fanatical behavior
Is calm and gentle, preferring an attitude of 'observing' over 'getting caught up in the drama'
Is not bound by concepts of profit/loss or success/failure
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As a style,
being "relaxed,"
being "philosophical,"
viewing the ups and downs of life as part of a larger flow,
and understanding that even if the ego reacts as if it's a "huge problem," awareness knows that "none of it makes a difference."
The essential answer
There is no need to try to survive with the "thinking mind."
The "aware mind" itself is already guiding life and responding optimally.
In other words, "surviving" essentially means "surrendering to the autonomous functioning of awareness."
【Q: Isn't that a passive attitude?】
A: To the ego, peace appears passive and inactive. This is because the ego perceives things from the perspective of "doing" something—dominating, acquiring, or avoiding. The ego speeds down the highway, exceeds the speed limit, and watches out for police cars. It gets irritated at slow drivers, tailgates them while spewing curses, honks its horn, and cuts them off at curves. It drives while driven by the urge to beat the clock and cut into lines. If there is a driver in front, it shakes its fist and vows terrible revenge. Even while committing these outrages, it is strategizing for work, using a cell phone, and listening to the radio. Conversely, the aware mind rides the flow of traffic and happily yields space to the poor soul cutting in front. The relaxed perspective of awareness is also directed toward others.
【Q: Isn't such a relaxed posture useless?】
A: This posture focuses on the big picture rather than the act. The ego relies on force (negative energy), while the spirit is influenced by power (positive energy). Awareness knows that in the long run, it is not what you did, but who you are and how you have grown that matters. One overheats the situation, while the other calms it.
ChatGPT:
That is a very good exchange. To summarize, the following points emerge.
【Q: Isn't that passive?】
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The ego's perspective
Feels that peace is "doing nothing" or "passive"
Cannot feel at ease unless it is acquiring, dominating, or avoiding something
Example: Driving while irritated, overtaking, competing, and getting angry on the highway
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Perspective of awareness
Go with the flow and yield to those who cut in with composure
A "relaxed" posture manifests as kindness and tolerance toward others
[Q: Isn't such a posture useless?]
Ego → Thinks it is "useless" or "losing"
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Awareness → Places value on "existence itself" rather than "actions"
The ego relies on force (pushing, negative)
Spirit is based on power (quiet, fulfilling essential energy)
In the long run, "who you were and how you grew" holds more meaning than "what you did"
The essential answer
A "relaxed" awareness is neither passive nor useless, but rather an active way of being that transcends forceful reactions. It works to calm situations rather than overheating them.
For example, in daily life:
Egoic attitude → Acts based on "winning/losing, right/wrong, and gain/loss"
Awareness-based attitude → Based on "harmony, understanding, and wholeness"
For those who have watched until the end, that was a long one. Reaching this point is wonderful.

This is the 198th article. The true self is the aware heart based in love, the source, the true self, and I believe there are other expressions as well.
