Rio-chan

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I am so grateful for our meeting!!♡♡♡

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For those who are new, let me introduce myself briefly.
・I grew up having been abused.
・I have experienced the loss of my own child (stillbirth).
・I am suffering from a progressive intractable disease.
・My husband and three children (all university students living outside the prefecture) are my treasures.
・My profession is a support counselor at a nursing care facility.
Since becoming ill, I realized that time is "limited," so I studied and obtained qualifications as:
・Certified Care Worker
・Psychological Counselor
・Aroma Color Instructor
・Mental Trainer
・I write about the daily life of my family (including myself) 365 days a year.
・I am a total beginner at SNS. I would be happy if you could watch over me warmly♡
Abuse, losing my child, suffering from an intractable disease.
Writing it down makes it sound like something that would make one frown.
Crying, being scared,
Hating, failing,
Getting angry, sulking,
Resenting, feeling sad,
...
But even more than that,
I laugh a lot of it off,
...
I quite like my life.
Even if I could choose my life,
I would want to choose the life I have now,
where I can meet my husband and three children.
This is the daily life of an ordinary mom living in the countryside.
Please keep me company today as well.

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When I got home from work today,

a gift for a birth celebration arrived

from a junior colleague at my husband's company.

A birth celebration gift✨✨✨

Name : Rio

Rio-chan, what a beautiful name.

The enclosed card has a photo of Rio-chan.

So cute♡♡♡

Heart, Cherry Blossom,

I wonder what kind of thoughts were put into that name.

I remembered the time

when my husband and I decided on our children's names.

I remembered.

Let's use the character for "friend" so they are blessed with "friends."

We gave all three of them names using the kanji for "friend."

Because I was an abused child,

during my school days,

it was always my "friends"

who supported me.

I thought that if I had "friends,"

I could overcome anything.

My husband is the eldest son in a rural family,

so although he was raised with care

as the heir,

still,

At turning points in life,

the support of "friends"

seemed to be significant,

so they were very much in favor

of giving the children names that use the character for "friend".

Just as they wished,

it seems the children

have each been blessed

with good "friends".

I have heard that the very first gift

parents give to their child

is their name.

I am looking forward to the day

when Rio-chan grows up healthy and strong,

and comes to visit us

at our home.

I can't wait.