Motivation Ranking!

Juniors brought to tennis school by their parents
There is a disparity in motivation at the starting line

Some children dislike moving around or sweating
Some children dislike ball games, and some insist they won't do it
Some children whine that they don't want to do it, and some feel forced to do it by their parents' wishes
Some children show on their faces that it's not fun, and some decide before they even start that they can't do it
Some children just think it doesn't matter

This kind of negative motivation is natural, isn't it?

Even in the adult world, there are times when we think we dislike or are not good with certain people
There are times when we don't want to work, and thinking it's not fun or that we can't do it
is at the top of the negative motivation ranking

Even among the little juniors, there are some who have positive motivation from the start
They feel it's fun when they succeed, and they think it's enjoyable to keep taking on challenges
The smiles on their faces after they finish are full of a sense of accomplishment,

People who first come to Hero's school are usually between -7 and -3
Bringing that up to +6 is a difficult task, but
looking at the growth rate, they grow by 10 to 14 points
That's why it's fun to teach,

Also, motivation changes throughout the day
Even though you've managed to lift their spirits to a happy state of accomplishment
if you say things like 'that was bad' or 'you should have done this' in the car on the way home
it turns into negative motivation, where they don't want to do it or feel forced by their parents,

Sometimes parents, in their motivation to do things for their children as parents,
actually end up making their children's motivation negative,

So I want you to observe the children closely,
Giving advice that lowers children's motivation is a loss
It lowers the time they want to spend with you and the level of trust they have in you,

The most wonderful job a parent can do is
'Sending the child off pleasantly and welcoming them back pleasantly'
Parents who can do this are respected and loved by their children, aren't they?

It's the same between couples; you don't want to go home after a fight, right?
Adults can escape by drinking at an izakaya or going to karaoke
It's pitiful that children have nowhere to escape to,

In society, at work, between lovers, in the home, and between parents and children
'Sending them off pleasantly and welcoming them back pleasantly'
I think this is the foundation for living a happy life.