That thing called 'facing yourself.' It might not have any meaning anymore.

What is often said in self-help seminars, sessions, and books,
facing yourself,

there is a limit to that.

Digging around in your past,
having someone do a reading for you,
searching for what you like,
finding what you dislike,
listing all sorts of things to create your own instruction manual,

that's fine in its own way, but
there is a limit to how much you can improve that way.

Just understanding yourself isn't enough.
You need to collide with things,
break things down,
cry, scream, and vomit,
and take action to move forward.

When you think about taking action, you feel a sense of dread.
You must not look away from that part that makes you feel that dread.
Whether it's a burning sensation in your throat,
a feeling of something rising up in your stomach,
vomiting,
having diarrhea,
or not being able to sleep,

you must not run away
from those emotions you don't want to feel.
It's painful to look at them head-on, but
if you run away from that pain
and only face the parts that are easy to face,
your life won't change much.

Continuing to do self-help or coaching for years
is a waste of time and money.

It's important to grasp the roots, not just the branches and leaves of each problem.
Even the places you thought were the roots
might actually not be the roots at all.

Since it's difficult to grasp the true roots by yourself,
you hire a coach or consultant, but
if that coach or consultant
hasn't grasped that person's true roots,
no matter how many sessions you have, you won't find your true roots.
You're just finding things that look like roots and rejoicing in solving them.

If you've been facing yourself a lot but haven't solved anything,
"action"
is necessary.

Without that, you're just at the level of
"pretending" to do it.

I've been facing myself the whole time!
I understand myself!
I've done this much!
I'm still investing in myself!
That's why I'm getting better!
I should be getting better!

The fact that it's not over
means you haven't reached the true roots.

If you take action,
the results you've built up until now
might all be destroyed,
so you must face and collide with that anxiety and fear.
If your peace is destroyed,
you might have trouble in the future.
No, you will definitely have trouble.
You have to perform surgery on the places you know are problematic
and drain the pus
from yourself and the reality you've created.

Even after performing surgery,
there will be moments when you think,
"Was this the right thing to do?"

But
you have no choice but to make your own choices the right ones.
There is no such thing as what is correct.
It's not something that can be decided by others.
That's why you decide for yourself what is correct.
Completely ignore other people's opinions
and decide, "This is my correct answer!"
And then make your choices the right ones.

You'll be scared and hesitant, but
don't just look at the immediate anxiety,
try looking at the future that lies beyond that.

If that future is the future you want, then you should move.
If you can't see a good future right now, you don't have to move.
You are the one who creates your own life.

Just facing yourself isn't enough.
Perform surgery on the places that make you feel that dread,
take action, and change your reality.

The world is beautiful.
In order to see the beautiful world as it is,
perform surgery on your past self
and the reality your past self created,
and drain the pus.
I think the world after you've drained it all out

will surely look even more beautiful.
The photo is of the goggles I bought when I went swimming in Lake Mead.

I tried hard to stretch the kids' size ones to put them on, but I couldn't open my eyes.
Lake Mead is an artificial lake, and it seems to be 10 times the size of Lake Biwa.
Artificial and 10 times the size!?
It's large enough to submerge the 23 wards of Tokyo.
America really is on a different scale.
I've posted many travel photos on Instagram.
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