[Relationships] That sense of discomfort is your intuition

This is Giulia.

Even when you meet someone and have a good time, you may
suddenly feel a sense of discomfort.

Even the slightest hesitation cannot be ignored.
That is because it is definitely an alarm for you yourself.

I myself have had moments where I felt a faint sense of discomfort toward someone I was initially treating favorably.

I have also ignored that feeling and told myself,
"It's just my imagination"
"I'm overthinking it"
.

In the end, I came to realize that my initial feeling was correct...

Discomfort is something that often lacks a clear reason.
However, since it is the result of your heart detecting something unusual, you should not take it lightly.

"Is it okay for me to be here?"
"Can I really be myself when I'm with this person?"

That question is being asked unconsciously.

If you proceed while ignoring that discomfort, the price will surely come back to you.

Do not overlook small signs.
That is the attitude necessary to protect yourself.

Even if you choose to distance yourself from someone,
that is not running away, but a form of self-defense.

However, I do not recommend running away in a dishonest way.
Running away like that is rude, uncool, and destroys trust.

"A bird does not foul the nest it leaves behind"
→ When you leave a place, tidy up so that it doesn't look unsightly afterward.

People in the past said some good things, didn't they?

When you leave, leave coolly and cleanly. That might be "adult etiquette".

And there is no need to doubt yourself for feeling that discomfort.
What you should believe in is your own intuition.

Are you able to cherish your own sense of discomfort?