✨Q: God, tell me! 'Why are people bound by the evaluations of others?'

The morning commute train.
My boss's words from yesterday are still swirling in my chest.
'I had such high expectations for you.'
I just can't let those words go.

Even when I get home, I worry about how my family will react.
'Did I do it right?' 'Do they think I'm strange?'
Before I knew it, my mind was filled with the voices of others.

🌑 On the shadow of psychology
People don't care about 'evaluation' because they are weak.
It is an instinct to seek connection.

No one can live in isolation.
That is why we become sensitive to whether or not we are 'accepted'.
'To be recognized is to be able to live'—
that ancient memory still lives deep within our hearts.

💔 A deeper truth
But you see, evaluation only exists on that person's own 'ruler'.

For example, some people might see a red flower and say it's 'too flashy,' while others might feel it's 'passionate and lovely.'
Evaluation is a
mirror that reflects the heart of the person evaluating.It does not determine your own value.

When you entrust your heart to the gaze of others,
your 'freedom' is gradually chipped away.
At that moment, your soul whispers quietly:
—'Remember your true standard.'

🌱 How to overcome it
When you feel pained by the evaluations of others,
try closing your eyes for a moment and placing your hand on your chest.

'How am I feeling right now?'
'Am I truly living my own life?'

That answer is the 'true standard' of your soul.
Trust your own senses more than the voices of others.
That is the first step to 'living freely'.

☀️ On kindness and love
Those who can remain unafraid of evaluation
are also those who do not judge others.

Because they know that 'everyone is still on their journey,'
they do not blame others for their shortcomings.
They do not blame them even if they haven't achieved something.

Love is looking at 'existence' beyond evaluation.
Therein lies the freedom of your soul.

🌸 A word from God
People's evaluations change like the wind.
However, your value will not be shaken by the wind.
Rather than how you are seen,
choose how you love.
Therein lies true freedom.

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