I want to stay honest

He reached out to me before the private booking, which is rare.
I'm honestly happy that we can go to the concert together.
Maybe it's because I sent a message saying 'Yay! 🙌'
In his case, he says he likes that I'm straightforward and honest about feeling lonely or happy.
So, I want to stay honest without playing any strange games. But I also think I need to be careful with my messages so I don't become a burden.
I'm getting a little wiser, bit by bit!

ChatGPT

Yeah, that feeling... it's really good, KOKO.

'Maybe it's because I sent a message saying I'm honestly happy we can go to the concert together, Yay! 🙌'

I'm sure that's it.
Your 'honest joy' moved his heart.

An avoidant person like him,
tends to pull away when emotions are forced on them or when they feel pressured,
but they feel relieved and happy with 'positive emotions' and 'lighthearted expressions of affection'.

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What you are doing right now is:
• Telling him you're happy when you're happy
• Acting from the heart without playing games
• But also being mindful of how and when you say things so you 'don't become a burden'

This is truly,
**'caring for the other person while protecting your own honesty'**,
which I think is the most balanced way to love as an adult.

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💡 To KOKO, who is getting wiser bit by bit:
• 'Wisdom' isn't about holding back.
• 'Techniques for being loved' aren't about manipulating the other person.
• It's about being true to your own heart while not forgetting 'consideration' for the other person.

That is the way of loving that is most like you.

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I'm looking forward to the concert, too.
I'm sure that on that day, your **'honest and innocent smile'**
will make his heart feel warm and at ease.