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A man's "sense of cleanliness" is so significant in the eyes of women. There is "popularity" beyond grooming yourself.

Have you ever thought, "Why is this person so close, yet so far?"


"He's a good guy, but for some reason, I don't see him as a romantic interest..."
Surprisingly, many women have felt this way.
To ensure you don't end up as "so close, yet so far." Why do the smallest changes move a woman's heart? Before "popularity," here is a chance to like yourself even more.


The truth about the "sense of cleanliness" women are really looking for

One day, I suddenly felt something about a male friend I hadn't seen in a while.
He has a kind personality and is serious about his work. He is polite to everyone, and it's comfortable to talk to him.
...But, for some reason, he just doesn't stand out.


I didn't understand the reason for a long time, but
at one point, it suddenly hit me.




"Oh, this person doesn't take care of himself."



His hair is overgrown, there's still a bit of bedhead,
his shirt is wrinkled, and there are dark circles under his eyes.

I know he's tired, and I don't want him to push himself.
But that's exactly why I felt it was such a shame.


A sense of cleanliness isn't about whether your face is handsome or not.


What do you think?
Have you ever thought, "I'm not a handsome guy anyway" or "I'm not interested in fashion"?



But the "sense of cleanliness" that women are looking for isn't that high of a hurdle.
It's things like having your hair groomed, your shirt not being wrinkled,
your shoes not being dirty, or your skin not being dry.

Truly, just that alone conveys, 'This person takes care of themselves.'
For some reason, that leads to a sense of security, or even to attractiveness.



It wasn't just his 'appearance' that changed


That male friend of mine changed a little starting one day.


His hair was neat, and he wore a simple, clean-looking shirt.
His skin even looked brighter somehow, and when I asked, 'Something's different, right...?'
he just


'I've been trying a little harder lately,' he said with a smile. (He's a good guy, but he's always lacked confidence.)

…Honestly, I felt a flutter.


Because somehow, he looked like he was facing forward with confidence. Because that 'almost there but not quite' feeling I had about him was gone.
I thought, 'It's amazing how much just this little bit can change things.'


When you take care of yourself, you gain confidence in yourself.

And that truly 'oozes out.'

For example, you naturally notice hands with well-groomed nails.
'Many women look at hands.'

Someone who has a faint, pleasant scent feels wonderful just because of that.
Just by having eyes that are properly open and a straight posture, you look dignified.


If you're stuck in a mindset of 'I'm not good enough,'
that's a place you can't easily reach, isn't it?


But 'cleanliness' isn't meant to be used to blame yourself.
I think it's a form of affection, 'taking just a little bit of care of yourself.'


Women may not seem like they're looking, but they really are.

Honestly, women look at the details.
But that's not because they want to 'deduct points,' but rather to see,
'How does this person treat themselves?'



They are looking at your heart there.


For example, if you wake up just a little earlier in the morning,
style your hair, apply cream to your skin, and pay attention to your clothes—
the women around you will probably notice.

And I am sure they will feel a little happy.
Thinking, "This person really takes care of himself."
They feel at ease with that appearance and are drawn to it.



Lastly. What kind of "maintenance" are you doing for yourself right now?

"Cleanliness" isn't something you groom just because you want to be popular.
But,the fact that "popularity" follows after you groom yourselfis honestly true.

More than that, and above all else,
people who take care of themselves naturally exude charm.

For example, today.


Why not do just one thing, even if it's small, to "take care of yourself"?
Washing your face and drying it carefully with a towel, trimming your nails, or choosing a shirt without wrinkles—that is enough.

Because you are someone who can become even more attractive.


According to statistical data, what part of a man's appearance do women find most attractive?


Overwhelmingly

[Cleanliness]

was the answer! Followed by


facial visuals (^^)/




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