Stop Worrying About 'Difficult Relationships'! How to Find a Stress-Free Workplace

Stop Worrying About 'Difficult Relationships'! How to Find a Stress-Free Workplace

'Relationships are so hard...' 'I don't want to talk to anyone at work anymore...'

The most common work-related concern is interpersonal relationships. Even if you are satisfied with your job duties, you may find yourself dreading going to the office or even falling ill due to relationship issues.

Often, there is little you can do about relationships on your own, and some people may consider changing jobs as a last resort.

But don't worry. You can find a 'stress-free workplace'.

In this article, I will share three ways to find a stress-free workplace so you no longer have to suffer from interpersonal relationship issues.

1. Identify the cause of why 'relationships are hard'

Before considering a job change, it is important to first identify the cause of why you feel 'relationships are hard.' Once you know the cause, it becomes easier to strategize what kind of company you should choose next.

• Cause 1: Poor compatibility with specific individuals

  • Are you struggling with communication with specific people, such as a boss, colleague, or subordinate?

• Cause 2: Mismatch with company culture or atmosphere

  • Do you feel unable to fit into the company atmosphere, such as being forced to attend drinking parties or events, or having your private life interfered with?

• Cause 3: Lack of communication

  • Do you feel isolated, such as having little information sharing within the team or having no one to consult with?

2. Three ways to find a stress-free workplace

Once you have identified the cause of why your 'relationships are hard,' let's move on to creating a concrete job-hunting strategy.

Method 1: Thoroughly research the company's 'work style'

• Recommended for people like this: Those who feel that 'the company culture or atmosphere does not suit them'

• Checkpoints:

  • Office: Is it a hot-desking system or assigned seating?

  • Remote work: Is remote work implemented?

  • Department: How do the team members work?

By obtaining this information, it becomes easier to form a concrete image of the environment you will be working in after joining the company.

Method 2: Check interpersonal relationships during the "interview"

• Recommended for: People who feel they "don't get along with a specific person"

• Checkpoints:

  • Interviewer's demeanor: Is this someone you can respect? Are their questions polite?

  • Team members: Is there an opportunity to interview with team members?

• Pro tip: Try asking the interviewer, "Will I have the opportunity to speak with team members after joining?"

  • If you have the opportunity, talking to team members directly will allow you to get a feel for the workplace atmosphere.

Method 3: Consult with a "recruitment agent"

• Recommended for people who: feel there is a "lack of communication"

• Pro tip: Recruitment agents can ask questions on your behalf that might be difficult for you to ask the company directly.

• Checkpoints:

  • "What kind of personalities do most of the team members have?"

  • "Is communication between employees active?"

  • "How is the onboarding process (training for new employees) conducted after joining?"

Since recruitment agents are knowledgeable about the internal situation of companies, they can extract the information you really want to know.

Summary: There is definitely a "place" for you

Feeling that "workplace relationships are painful" is by no means your fault. It just means that your current workplace does not match your personality or values.

That is why you should not carry it alone, but go out and find a place that suits you. There is definitely a "place" where you can feel comfortable.

Why not talk to a career expert for a bit?

After reading this article, are you still feeling unsure, wondering, "What about my situation in the end?"

In such cases, it is recommended to use a career expert as a "sounding board" instead of keeping it to yourself.

In a 30-minute online interview, I will listen to your situation and help you clear your mind. Casual chats are also very welcome! You can easily book a convenient time from the link below, so please feel free to do so.

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