【Are those money troubles really the truth? ~A story about money and consciousness ④~】
This is the final installment of this series.
Today, I would like to write about my own experience regarding
how clouded consciousness magnifies money problems.
Money troubles that happened in the past
In the past, I incurred a large debt due to
money troubles
in my beauty salon business.
At that time, I had no one on my side,
I believed that
it was my fault and that I had to pay it back,
so I continued making repayments.
What happened after I continued the release
Since painful emotions remained,
even after returning to the island,
I continued to release the emotions related to that matter.
Then, one day,
my father
suddenly told me that he had taken the liberty of
“consulting a money expert he works with about my situation.”
From there, a meeting was arranged quickly,
and I ended up explaining the details.
The “truth” that came to light
After that,
I had multiple tax accountants and lawyers
look at my explanation and documents
individually.
Each time, even though the people were different,
everyone said the same thing in unison.
“Where are you at fault in this?”
“Aren't you being taken advantage of by the other party?”
“It is strange that you are the only one being forced to bear the burden.”
“There was no need for you to pay that.”
“...Huh?”
My mind went blank.
Even so,
I was trying to get them to understand the reasons
why I had to make the repayments.
However,
no matter how much I explained,
none of the experts were convinced, so
I wrote the timeline down on paper and
desperately tried to explain
how I was at fault 🤣
(What a pushover! Lol)
Guilt hides the truth
That is how much guilt
makes it impossible to see the truth,
as if you were wearing a blindfold.
And gradually, I
"Huh? Maybe this really is strange"
I started to wake up, little by little.
Driven by fear and guilt, I had been
blindly
letting myself be swept away
by whatever the other person said.
Without asserting my own side of the story.
Of course, I ended up in a unilaterally disadvantageous position,
treated like a villain as if I were a criminal,
(made to believe I was)
and subjected to unreasonable treatment.
Even though the truth was different.
It was an event that made me painfully realize that
swallowing my own opinions out of fear
to avoid making waves, and being unable to assert myself,
can escalate into such a terrible,
painful trouble for myself.
And
"Why didn't I consult the appropriate experts sooner?"
I regretted it.
(I later realized this was also my habit
of trying not to make waves)
In reality, I wasn't alone
I have no allies,
I have to carry this burden alone
Even though I thought that,
Before I knew it, I had more allies,
and I was being helped. 😭✨
I let go of my painful past,
and I was able to
reset all my financial debts.
I believe this
was largely due to the fact that I
steadily let go of my negative emotions
and limiting beliefs.
The true nature of the negative loop
From this experience,
[Blaming/Being blamed]
and the [Victim/Perpetrator] dynamic
made me realize that they can sometimes be created
by one's own guilt and limiting beliefs.
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Our own guilt triggers
the other person's victim mentality to intensify
↓
By being blamed,
I become even more convinced that 'I am the bad one'
↓
Out of fear, I act submissively
and cannot talk back,
which causes the relationship to become even more distorted and intense
↓
Before I know it,
I have become the complete villain
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The terror of this negative loop... 🥺
What is important regardless of which side you are on
That is precisely why,
It is important to
release your own guilt and fear.
And if, conversely,
you are in a victim mentality and
find yourself wanting to blame the other person,
you must fully release your anger and sadness,
and return to a calm state of consciousness.
By doing so,
you will be able to
respond and discuss things appropriately with love,
while understanding the other person's situation and feelings.
And sometimes,
"Actually, neither side was at fault"
you may even reach such a conclusion.
(Of course, cases with clear malicious intent are an exception)
The victim mentality loop
When a victim mentality is
in your subconscious
due to emotional wounds from childhood,
at some point,
"events that make you feel like a victim"
will repeatedly occur in your life, to a greater or lesser extent.
And that victim mentality,
can sometimes turn into being the "perpetrator" in an instant.
And then return to being a victim again...
Like a pendulum,
it swings back and forth.
As long as you do not break out of this loop,
the suffering in your life
will continue in different forms🙈
The relationship between money and emotions
If you continue to hold onto negative emotionssuch as
attachment to money or guilt,
It can destroy relationships and
get you involved in troubles
that didn't need to happen,
leaving you exhausted.
That is precisely why,
in order to keep money problems
from becoming too big in your life,
I would be happy if you could
make use of my experiences and lessons 🥹
Finally,
I have talked about money from various angles
in parts 1 through 4,
but what I want to convey consistently is,
by releasing suffering and negative emotions, and creating a calm and beautiful state of consciousness
,
not only money,
work,
relationships,
and health
you can create a harmonious life
in everything.,
You no longer have to
suffer by being pushed around
by unreasonable things.
Even if you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel right now, it will be okay.
Let's
create a happy and abundant life together 🪽🫧
P.S.
For this series,
the words suddenly overflowed,
and I couldn't stop typing 🤣
I am sure there is someone who needs this.
Please do take a look back at it from time to time ☺️
♡ERI♡
Stories about money and consciousness (1)-(3)👇
Part 1↓
Part 2↓
Part 3↓
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