【What do you actually want?】In love, all that matters is your own mindset!!
"What do you actually want to do?"
Decide and take action.
By repeating this,
your life will change more and more✨
Unless you make your own choices
and take the lead in your own actions,
things will not change!!
Even if
this choice
causes a phenomenon you
"didn't expect."
Since the phenomenon is the result of your choice,
by choosing again there,
your life will continue to improve for the better🌈✨
Instead of leaving things to others or blaming others,
realize that everything that happens to you is
"something you chose and acted upon yourself"!
Love is the same.
Leave the world where you rely on your partner
or blame your partner
as soon as possible😆
Regarding your partner,
what you think and what you feel
message
The words you speak
Meeting up
Kissing or having sex
All of these things are
chosen by you, and
you are acting exactly as you chose!
Whether the result is good or bad,
you are the one creating it all🥰
Everyone, each and every one of you,
is creating your own reality!!
Which means...
you can also create a super wonderful reality💖
Differences in mindset
are reflected in the results!
I have failed many times
in my past relationships.
There is something I learned from those failures.
Everything changes for better or worse
depending on your own mindset!!
Depending on your mindset,
relationships that work out
and relationships that don't
are clearly divided!
For example,
when your partner is
out late drinking with friends or coworkers,
how do you feel?
[Person A]
Why aren't you coming home early!!
I want to see you soon, I'm lonely (crying)
[Person B]
It looks like it's going to be late today
Well then, I'll just go to sleep first.
[Person C]
I'm glad you're having fun!
I can enjoy my free time too♪
Even if it's the same phenomenon,
what people feel varies from person to person.
At this moment,what you are feeling
will create the next (future) phenomenon.
Of course,
among these three people,
the best phenomenon will appear
in Person C's future as a result!
Because you have a relationship of trust with yourself,
a relationship of trust with him will also be built♡
It really just depends on your own mindset😂
I have spent a long time feeling dissatisfied and lonely
towards my partner, just like Person A,
so this really hits home...
Anyway,
I was letting the other person define who I was💔
My happiness was being swayed by
what the other person decided to do,
and my emotions were extremely volatile...
When you are swallowed up by your own emotions,
honestly, you can't even see
what's going on around you or even the other person...💦
That turns into selfishness towards the other person,
and it starts to become a burden.
When that happens,
you eventually end up distancing yourselves from each other.
It would be great if you could realize it
at some point, but you only see what you want to see,
and you only feel what you want to feel.
To create a good reality,
sometimes you need to stop and pause!
The timing to pause
When you are feeling emotions you don't want to feel,
or when you are holding back, that is the time
to stop and pause!
Jealousy
Possessiveness
Jealousy
Resentment
Anxiety
Inability to take action
Becoming emotional
Sexual desire
Having these feelings and desires is
not wrong at all.
They are natural things to have in love and marriage!
In fact,
I think it just shows how much you love that person!!
Because you love them that much,
you start wanting to move them
or want things to go your way
and end up thinking that way.
However,
if you have these feelings
and feel 'pain or suffering',
it is time to face yourself.
Do not face the other person,
face yourself.
Unless you realize your true feelings,
you cannot stop
expecting things from or trying to control your partner.
Because you are always lying to yourself,
you end up doing things to your partner
that you don't actually want to do.💔
People who feel guilt or self-loathing are lying to their own hearts...
so they end up saying things to their partner
that they don't really mean.
In reality, you are creating
the things you don't want to happen.
Self-loathing
Guilt
If you are in a relationship where you feel these things,
it is time to take a good look at yourself.🥰
The fact that "bad" things are happening
is a message to you.
When you change yourself, your partner changes.
I myself have also
only had things happen in my relationships
that I didn't want to happen.
Whether I was dating men
or dating women,
things I didn't want to happen still occurred.
That has nothing to do with gender,
it's because your ownmindset (state of mind) wasn't
aligned😂
In the first place,
thinking of things as "not going well"
is often just a "preconception"💦
It's okay,
everything is going perfectly!!
When your own mindset becomes aligned,
it feels like the other person has changed♡
The things inside you,
the expectations (ego) you have
for the other person to "be this way"
once you let those out,
and acknowledge and accept everything,
your mindset regarding love will align.
Feel what you are feeling,
and what you are holding back,
to the absolute limit!!!!
When you do that,
you will start to feel fulfilled,
and you will be able to calmly understand yourself✨
This is something
you can only understand by experiencing it.
Practice is the only way.
Rather than reading love techniques or dating books,
by facing yourself and doing the work thoroughly,
your relationship worries will naturally resolve themselves🥰
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