Does 'Self-Talk English' Really Work? The Complete Procedure for Solo Speaking Practice Proven Over 5 Years of Self-Study
I want to practice English conversation. But I don't have anyone to talk to.
For those struggling with that problem, there is a practice method that has been frequently mentioned lately: 'Self-Talk English'.
In every situation of daily life, you turn the monologue in your head into English. You might mutter 'I'm making pasta tonight.' while cooking, or say 'The train is really crowded today.' in your mind during your commute. It is a method spreading through social media and English learning communities with the promise that you can keep using English in your daily life even without a partner.
But, I will be honest.
I once thought that Self-Talk English was 'meaningless'.
The reason is simple: I tried it for over half a year, but I didn't become able to speak at all. I did things like saying 'Good morning.' when I woke up and 'This is delicious.' while eating. But when I talked to an English conversation partner, the words still wouldn't come out. There was a time when I almost gave up, thinking, 'Self-Talk English can only be used for scripted-like content, so maybe it's pointless.'
However, after 5 years of self-study, I had a realization.
The problem wasn't the 'Self-Talk English' method itself, but that my approach was fundamentally wrong.
In this article, I will reveal the correct way to use Self-Talk English, including my own failures. If done correctly, Self-Talk English is surprisingly effective at boosting your speaking ability. It is one of the strongest forms of independent practice that allows you to train your English speaking skills in your spare time every day, even without a conversation partner.
What is 'Self-Talk English' in the first place?
Self-Talk English is a practice method where you express your actions, thoughts, and emotions in English in various daily situations.
Specifically, you use it in scenes like these:
Muttering 'I'm so tired today. I didn't sleep well.' when you wake up in the morning.
Giving a play-by-play while cooking: 'Let me add some salt. It needs a little more seasoning.'
Putting your feelings into words during your commute: 'The weather is nice today. It's a good day to go for a walk.'
Self-monitoring when you make a mistake at work: 'Ugh, I made a mistake again. I need to be more careful.'
Reflecting on your day in English before going to bed at night.
In short, it is the simple act of 'saying out loud in English what you are thinking in Japanese'.
The biggest advantage of this method is thatno conversation partner is required. You can practice by yourself, anytime and anywhere, without having to book online English lessons or go to an English conversation school.
Why does Self-Talk English work? — 3 Reasons
The effectiveness of self-talk English is by no means just a feeling. From the perspective of improving speaking ability, there are several logical reasons for it.
Reason 1: 'Language automation' occurs
Many people who are not good at English conversation are in a state of 'thinking in English before speaking' when they talk. Because the process of thinking in Japanese, translating to English, and then pronouncing it happens consciously, they cannot keep up with the speed of conversation.
To solve this, it is necessary to 'automate' English expressions. Automation means the state where words come out of your mouth without thinking.
This requires repetition, and self-talk English allows you to incorporate those opportunities for repetition into your daily life. By repeatedly using the same expressions in your daily life, those expressions become fixed in your memory and come out of your mouth without conscious effort.
Reason 2: You can practice 'speaking in context'
Reading text aloud or shadowing is practice for speaking words created by others. That has its own value, but it is slightly different from the essential skill of conversation, which is 'expressing what you want to say in English'.
In self-talk English, you turn what you are currently feeling or thinking into English. This is close to a conversation simulation. It is practice for training the circuit that expresses your thoughts in English.
Reason 3: Low psychological hurdles
What many people feel when practicing English conversation is the anxiety of 'what if I make a mistake?' Especially when there is another person present, failure feels embarrassing.
Self-talk English is done alone. No one is listening. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake. That is why you can speak out boldly. This psychological safety is actually extremely important. By building the habit of speaking English in a state without anxiety, you will be able to speak calmly in actual conversations as well.
The reason I failed for half a year—3 common mistakes
Why did I not feel any growth for half a year with self-talk English, which should be effective? Looking back, I was making 3 fatal mistakes.
Mistake 1: 'I was only using expressions that were too simple'
At first, I only used super basic expressions that even a first-year junior high student would know, such as 'Good morning' or 'I'm hungry'.
This might build a 'habit of using English,' but it does not lead to 'mastering new expressions.' Just repeating expressions you already know will not improve your English ability.
The correct approach: Consciously use expressions that are a bit of a stretch. For example, choose more natural and conversational expressions like 'I'm starving' or 'I could go for some ramen right now'.
Mistake 2: 'It was not linked to input'
I was doing self-talk English and English learning (English input) completely separately.
In my English learning, I would watch movies or read English articles, but I wasn't trying to use the expressions I encountered there in my self-talk. In other words, my self-talk was just 'reusing expressions I already knew,' and my range of vocabulary and expressions was not expanding.
The correct approach: Actively try to use expressions you've learned through input in your self-talk. Take the phrase "I can't believe this" that you heard in a movie today and try using it in your own situation within the same day—this dramatically speeds up vocabulary retention.
Mistake 3: "Ending with just output"
Even when I did self-talk English, I wasn't reflecting on what I had said. I was satisfied just by "vaguely speaking English out loud."
If you continue practicing without noticing your mistakes, those mistakes will simply become ingrained.
The correct approach: Make it a habit to reflect after your self-talk by asking, "Could I have said that better?" Combining this with an English diary, which I will describe later, makes it even more effective.
The correct way to do self-talk English—The complete 5-step version
So, how can you do self-talk English really effectively? Here are the 5 steps I arrived at after much trial and error.
Step 1: Create a "stock of expressions you want to use" first
The first hurdle in self-talk English is the state of "not knowing what to say in English." Even if you are told to "narrate your daily life in English" suddenly, expressions won't come to mind immediately.
Therefore, first, create a "stock of English expressions" for frequently encountered situations.
I recommend writing down 10 to 20 situations you experience often and preparing 3 to 5 English phrases for each.
Example: Morning situations
"I woke up before my alarm today."
"I didn't sleep well. I kept waking up in the middle of the night."
"I'm a morning person. I feel most productive in the morning."
Example: Commuting/travel situations
"The train is packed today. I can barely move."
"I'm running a little late. I hope I make it on time."
"I love listening to podcasts on the way to work."
If you put this stock into your smartphone's notes or a flashcard app, you can practice while looking at it at first.
Step 2: Use Inputted Expressions 'Immediately'
Make it a habit to use the expressions you inputted (heard or read) in English that day by using them in your self-talk within the same day.
For example, suppose you are watching a Netflix drama and hear the phrase "I'm not in the mood for this." Try using "I'm not in the mood for this..." later that day in a situation where you actually don't feel like doing something.
This "input to immediate output" cycle is the shortest route to truly making expressions your own.
The key is not to try to use them perfectly. It is important to just try using them, and it doesn't matter if you get the nuance wrong. Using them is what etches them into your memory.
Step 3: 'Increase the Difficulty' for Each Situation
If you use the same expressions in the same situations every time, you will stop improving. It is necessary to consciously increase the difficulty.
Specifically, set the difficulty in the following three stages.
Level 1 (Basic): State facts in simple sentences
"I'm making coffee." / "It's raining today."
Level 2 (Intermediate): Add emotions, impressions, and reasons
"I'm making coffee because I feel sleepy. I stayed up too late last night."
"It's raining again today. I hate it when it rains on a weekday."
Level 3 (Advanced): Develop hypotheses, comparisons, and stories
"I wish it would stop raining. If it were sunny, I'd go for a walk after work. I haven't exercised in weeks, which is bad for both my body and my mood."
Starting at Level 1 is fine. Gradually increase the level as you get used to it. The strength of self-talk English is that you can control the difficulty yourself, even without a conversation partner.
Step 4: Combine 'Reading Aloud' with 'Self-Talk'
With self-talk English alone, it can sometimes be difficult to acquire pronunciation and natural intonation. This is because it is hard to judge for yourself whether your own pronunciation is correct.
Therefore, a few times a week, incorporate a flow of "read aloud model English -> apply the same sentences to self-talk."
For example, use the transcript of your favorite YouTube channel or podcast, and first internalize the "native pronunciation and rhythm" by reading aloud. Then, try talking about the same topic in your own self-talk.
Absorbing model English through your ears and mouth, then speaking in your own words—this flow is an efficient method for training natural pronunciation and fluency simultaneously.
Step 5: Reflecting with an 'English Diary'
At the end of the day, look back on your self-talk and write it down in a diary.
Jot down points for reflection, such as 'I tried to say this in this situation today, but I couldn't say it well' or 'I wonder if this expression was correct.' Then, look up and record the 'correct' version of the expressions you couldn't say well.
This reflection improves the accuracy of your self-talk English. If you continue without reflection, there is a risk that incorrect English will become ingrained. By writing it in a diary, your awareness increases, and the quality of your self-talk the next day improves.
I have also explained English diaries in detail in another note, so please be sure to read that as well.
Weekly Practice Menu: Combining Self-Talk English with Other Practice Methods
Self-talk English is not something to be done in isolation; it yields the greatest results when combined with other learning methods. I will share the weekly menu I practice.
Monday: Input Strengthening Day
Morning: 20 minutes of English podcasts (during commute)
Daytime: Use the input expressions in self-talk 3 to 5 times
Night: Record 3 expressions you liked
Tuesday: Speaking Practice Day
Morning: 3 minutes of self-talk using the 3 expressions recorded yesterday
Daytime: Give a play-by-play of events at work in English (doing it in your head is also fine)
Night: Write 5 to 10 sentences in your English diary
Wednesday: Reading Aloud Strengthening Day
Morning: Read aloud a passage of English content you like for 5 minutes
Daytime: Apply the expressions you read aloud to your self-talk
Night: Reflect on your self-talk (look up expressions you couldn't say well)
Thursday: Storytelling Day
Morning: Choose one thing that happened this week and give a 1-2 minute mini-speech (self-talk) in English.
Daytime: Regular self-talk practice.
Evening: Give the speech again and check if you have improved since the first attempt.
Friday: Expression Expansion Day
Morning: Raise the expression level of 'situations you used often this week' by one notch.
Daytime: Consciously use the new expressions.
Evening: Write a weekly review in your English diary.
Saturday: Free Practice Day
While watching or listening to English content you like, use expressions that caught your attention in your self-talk.
It is okay not to force yourself to practice. Make it a day to 'enjoy' English.
Sunday: Review and Organization Day
Read back through this week's English diary.
Choose five expressions you couldn't say well and add them to your list of expressions to focus on next week.
Decide on a theme for next week (work, hobbies, news, etc.).
The point of this menu is not to 'study English for one hour every day,' but to 'integrate English into your daily life.' Even busy working professionals can put this into practice by using their commute or time spent doing chores.
Tips for Continuing Self-Talk English Without Giving Up
I often hear people say, 'I started self-talk English, but I got bored after three days' or 'I couldn't keep it up.' As with English learning in general, the reason many people cannot continue is either because they 'cannot see the results' or the 'hurdle is too high.'
Start Small and Build Up a 'Sense of Accomplishment'
If you decide from the start to do '30 minutes every day,' you will likely give up. The initial hurdle can be just 'one sentence a day.' Truly, just one sentence.
In the morning, while drinking coffee, say, "This coffee is really good today." That's all it takes. Once you do that, you get a sense of accomplishment that you "did it again today." Accumulating small achievements builds a habit.
Once one sentence becomes natural, increase it to three, and once three sentences become natural, move to one minute, and so on. Rather than aiming for long practice sessions from the start, this way of building up ensures you will keep going.
Decide on a location for your 'English Switch'
If the timing for starting self-talk English is vague, you will end up forgetting it. Therefore, I recommend deciding on a location for your 'English Switch'.
An English switch is a fixed place or action where you decide, 'I will think in English here.' For example, link English to specific actions, such as 'English while brushing my teeth,' 'English mode when I get on the commuter train,' or 'English while brewing coffee.'
Habits are easier to establish when linked to triggers of 'place, action, and time.' By deciding on an English switch, you can prevent the 'Oh, I haven't done my self-talk English today' scenario.
Put this week's 'theme phrases' on your smartphone home screen
Display 3 to 5 phrases you want to learn that week on your smartphone wallpaper or widget. Since you see them every time you look at your phone throughout the day, you will learn them without even trying.
Set those phrases at the beginning of the week and update them to new ones at the end of the week. This small routine will steadily increase your vocabulary.
Take notes on the 'moments you couldn't say it well'
If a situation arises during the day where you think, 'How do I say this in English?', take a note of it immediately. The content of the note can be in Japanese. For example, 'How do you say, I feel anxious because I'm stuck in traffic, in English?'
Review those notes at night and look up the English expressions. This is the most efficient way to learn the 'English necessary for your own life.' Expressions you actually want to use are overwhelmingly easier to remember than expressions found in textbooks.
Visualize your progress
Keep a record of 'how many days this month you did self-talk English.' A smartphone calendar or a simple notebook is fine. Just by checking off the days you succeeded, you create a visual sense of accomplishment.
This uses the psychological effect of a 'streak' (continuous record); the feeling that you don't want to break a continuous chain becomes a motivation to keep going.
Advice by level: A starting point that suits you now
For those who are worried, 'I want to try self-talk English, but can I do it at my level?' I have summarized specific advice by level.
Beginner (less than 1 year of English experience, not confident in junior high school English)
If you try to narrate your daily life in English right away, you will end up saying nothing and get discouraged. The correct approach for beginners is to 'start by memorizing phrases by heart.'
First, memorize 10 English phrases for 'frequently used emotions and states' like the ones below.
I'm tired. / I'm exhausted.
I'm hungry. / I'm starving.
That's interesting. / That's surprising.
I need a break.
I can't decide.
That was delicious.
It's so hot. / It's freezing.
I feel like doing nothing today.
I'm looking forward to the weekend.
This is harder than I thought.
Memorize these 10 phrases and use them in your daily life the moment you actually feel that way. That is all you need to do.
Once the phrases start coming out naturally, gradually increase the number you use.
Intermediate Learners (1-3 years of English experience, have a foundation in daily conversation)
Intermediate learners should focus on 'expanding their range of expression.'
Step out of your 'comfort zone' of using only the expressions you already know, and practice consciously using slightly more difficult expressions.
I recommend 'breaking down emotions.' For example, if you only used the word 'happy,' try using words with more nuanced meanings in your self-talk, such as 'thrilled,' 'relieved,' 'content,' or 'nostalgic.'
Also, try to consciously incorporate practice for speaking longer by adding 'reasons, background, and developments' rather than just using single sentences.
Advanced Learners (3+ years of English experience, can handle basic conversation)
Advanced learners should use this for 'spontaneous speaking' practice.
Choose a theme and talk to yourself in English for 2-3 minutes without preparation. This is training where you think of your answers while speaking, such as 'the most memorable thing that happened today,' 'thoughts on a movie you recently watched and enjoyed,' or 'what you would want to do if you were to change jobs.'
Also, simulating 'persuasion,' 'proposals,' and 'discussions' in English is effective. For advanced learners, practicing while imagining business scenarios, such as 'simulating a situation where you propose a new project to your boss' in English, is recommended.
A Collection of Phrases for Self-Talk English: 100 Selections by Situation
When you start self-talk English, the first wall you hit is the problem of 'not knowing what to say.' Therefore, I have carefully selected and introduced phrases by frequently used situations. Save these in your smartphone's notes and practice while looking at them at first.
Morning Situations
I woke up before my alarm.
I overslept again. I need to go to bed earlier.
I didn't sleep well last night. I kept having weird dreams.
I feel refreshed today. I slept like a log.
I'm not a morning person at all.
I need at least two cups of coffee to wake up.
It looks like it's going to be a nice day.
I don't feel like going to work today.
Meal and Cooking Situations
I'm so hungry. I could eat a horse.
I'm in the mood for something warm today.
This tastes amazing. I should make this more often.
I put too much salt in this.
I want to try cooking something new this weekend.
I've been eating out too much lately. I should cook more.
I'm trying to eat healthier, but it's really hard.
I'm full. I ate way too much.
Work and Study Situations
I have so much to do today. Where do I even start?
I finally finished that report. What a relief.
I can't seem to concentrate today. My mind keeps wandering.
I made a careless mistake. I need to double-check my work.
I'm stuck on this problem. I'll take a short break and come back to it.
The meeting went well. I'm glad I prepared.
I should have said that differently.
I feel like I'm finally getting the hang of this.
Commuting and Going Out Situations
The train is really crowded today. It's hard to breathe.
I just missed the train by a few seconds.
It's such a beautiful day. I wish I didn't have to work.
I've been walking for a while. My feet are starting to hurt.
I got a little lost, but I found my way.
This neighborhood has changed so much since the last time I came.
Feelings and Emotions Situations
I feel anxious about tomorrow's presentation.
I'm feeling really motivated today.
I'm proud of myself for keeping up with my English study.
I feel overwhelmed. There's too much going on.
I feel nostalgic. This song reminds me of high school.
I'm relieved that everything worked out in the end.
I feel genuinely happy right now. I don't know why, but I do.
I'm a little nervous, but mostly excited.
Evening/Before Bedtime Scenarios
Today was a long day. I'm exhausted.
I had a productive day. I got a lot done.
I need to wake up early tomorrow. I should go to bed soon.
I'm going to read a bit before I sleep.
I regret not going to the gym today. I'll definitely go tomorrow.
Today went by so fast.
I'm looking forward to the weekend. Just two more days.
5 Habits to Improve the 'Quality' of Your Self-Talk English
Simply repeating phrases out loud will eventually hit a plateau. Here are five habits to continuously improve the quality of your self-talk English.
Habit 1: Practice answering 'Why?' in English
Don't just state simple facts; follow them up with the reasons in English.
For example, instead of ending with 'I'm tired,' continue with 'I'm tired because I had a busy day at work. I had three back-to-back meetings and barely had time to eat lunch.'
Practicing how to verbalize reasons trains your ability to explain things and develop logical arguments in English. Even in real conversations, people who can provide reasons rather than just simple responses are perceived as being 'fluent'.
Habit 2: Master the Three Tenses: Past, Present, and Future
Japanese English learners often struggle with tenses. Use self-talk English to consciously practice using all three tenses.
Morning: 'What I am going to do today' (Future)
Afternoon: 'What is happening now or what I am feeling' (Present)
Night: 'Reflecting on what happened today' (Past)
Being conscious of this cycle naturally trains you to switch between the three tenses.
Habit 3: Practice Expressing 'Your Own Opinion' in English
Practice clearly articulating your 'opinions and positions' in English, which you might otherwise gloss over even in Japanese.
Try saying at least one sentence a day about news or events that starts with 'I think...', 'In my opinion...', or 'Personally, I feel that...'. This directly translates to your ability to argue and discuss in English.
Habit 4: Replace Unknown Words with 'Definitions'
When you can't think of the English word for what you want to say, don't give up; substitute it with 'English that explains it'.
For example, even if the English word for the feeling of 'yarusenai' (helpless/frustrated) doesn't come to mind immediately, explain it as, 'I feel like nothing is going right, but I can't really do anything about it. It's frustrating and a little sad at the same time.'
This is a practice to overcome the conversational weakness of 'freezing up when you don't know a word'.
Habit 5: Perceive Events Through an 'English Mindset'
English has expressions that Japanese doesn't, and vice versa. As you continue self-talk English, you will develop a sense for unique English expressions, realizing 'this feeling is expressed this way in English'.
For example, there is no direct equivalent for the Japanese word 'mottainai', but you can express it as 'It's such a waste' or 'It's a shame to throw this away'.
By consciously performing this 'language switching', you will make English ways of seeing and expressing things your own.
Self-Talk English × How to Use AI Tools
Recently, methods to further enhance the effectiveness of self-talk English using AI have been gaining attention.
The challenge with traditional self-talk English was that 'you don't know if your English is correct'. There is a risk that incorrect expressions will become ingrained if you continue without noticing your mistakes.
This is where AI comes in.
For example, if you try to say something in your self-talk and aren't sure if you said it correctly, input it into an AI (like ChatGPT) and ask, 'Is this English natural? Is there a more natural way to say this?' You will get immediate feedback.
Also, describing a situation by saying, 'I had this situation today, how would you express it in English?' and then using the expression you were taught in your self-talk the next day is a very effective cycle.
I am currently developing an app to support this kind of English learning. Lexion is an app that implements a feature where you can write an English diary, receive feedback from AI, and visualize the growth of your vocabulary.
👉 Lexion (in development):
When used in combination with self-talk English, you can practice while objectively checking the quality of your output. I highly recommend giving it a try.
Common Questions and Answers about Self-Talk English
Q. My pronunciation is terrible, is there any point in doing self-talk English?
A. Yes, there is. However, you should be conscious of your pronunciation. Self-talk English is for training the 'circuit to think and express in English,' and it does not automatically correct your pronunciation. Combining it with reading aloud while imitating native audio a few times a week will also improve your pronunciation.
Q. Is there a difference between saying it out loud and doing it in your head?
A. Yes, there is. Saying it out loud is far more effective. By speaking out loud, the muscles in your mouth, throat, and lungs used for actual speech move, training your physical speaking ability. Doing it only in your head helps organize your thoughts, but the effect on improving speaking ability is limited. If you are in a situation where you cannot speak out loud, whispering is fine.
Q. I can't think of the English and end up switching to Japanese. What should I do?
A. That is completely fine. It is natural to switch to Japanese in the middle at first. The important thing is to continue the 'attitude of trying to use English as much as you can.' Looking up how you should have said something in that situation later becomes a learning experience in itself.
Q. How many minutes a day should I do it?
A. Think in terms of 'frequency' rather than time. Doing it for 3 minutes every day is far more effective than doing it for 60 minutes once a week. The ideal is to 'create moments of self-talk English throughout your daily life.' Sprinkle moments where you consciously use English throughout your day, such as while cooking, commuting, or walking.
Q. Can I become fluent just by doing self-talk English?
A. You cannot become fluent with self-talk English alone. It is ultimately a tool for 'raising the baseline of your speaking ability' and 'solidifying expressions.' There are parts of true conversational ability that can only be trained through actual communication. Combining it with online English conversation or other opportunities to use English will maximize the effectiveness of self-talk English.
A Real-Life Example of Turning Self-Talk English into Speaking Ability—My Case
Finally, I will talk about how self-talk English affected my own speaking ability.
At one point in my third year of learning English, I hit a wall where I thought, 'I'm continuing shadowing, but when I try to speak for myself, the words don't come out.' It was the feeling that even though the sounds and rhythm of English were ingrained in me through shadowing, my mind would go blank the moment I tried to express my own thoughts in English.
So, I started practicing self-talk English consciously. However, I did it using the 'correct method' mentioned earlier: using input expressions immediately, gradually increasing the difficulty, and reflecting on them by combining them with an English diary.
Three months later, I felt a change. The time I spent 'thinking in English' increased. Previously, the process of 'thinking of what I want to say in Japanese and then converting it to English' happened consciously, but that gradually became unconscious.
After six months, the pressure of 'what should I say next' during online English conversations became lighter than before. I began to have the sensation during conversations of, 'Oh, I can use that expression I used in my self-talk earlier.'
Self-talk English may look plain, but if you continue it, it is definitely effective. However, that is only if you do it 'correctly'.
Related Article: Practice Methods That Increase Effectiveness When Combined with Self-Talk English
Self-talk English creates a synergistic effect when combined with other practice methods. Please also refer to the following articles.
Combining with Shadowing: After internalizing the 'rhythm and pronunciation of model English' through shadowing, turn the same topic into your own words using self-talk English—this flow is most effective for improving speaking ability. I also explain shadowing in detail in this note.
https://note.com/en_conversation/n/nc5e3df26130d
Combining with an English Diary: Look back on your day's self-talk and write it in an English diary. This increases the precision of your self-talk and also leads to the accumulation of vocabulary and expressive power. Please refer to this article for effective ways to keep an English diary.
https://note.com/en_conversation/n/n07de179850d0
Summary: Self-Talk English is the Strongest Self-Practice Method 'If Done Correctly'
To summarize this article.
Many people who fail at self-talk English make three mistakes: 'using only expressions that are too easy,' 'not linking it with input,' and 'not reflecting on it.'
The correct way is:
Create a stock of expressions you want to use first
Use the input expressions in your self-talk within the same day
Consciously increase the difficulty level
Combine with reading aloud to internalize model English
Reflect in an English diary and notice your mistakes
If you make this a weekly routine and turn it into a habit, your speaking ability will steadily improve even without a conversation partner.
There are no shortcuts on the path to improving English conversation. However, the habit of continuing to use English in your daily life will definitely raise the baseline of your English proficiency. I hope you will start 'Self-Talk English' today, a simple yet sustainable practice.
*In this note, I share reproducible English learning methods based on my own experience of mastering English conversation through complete self-study without studying abroad. Your likes and follows are a great encouragement.*
