To you who have been told, 'You are wrong because you haven't seen results yet.'

'You are wrong because you haven't seen results yet.'

You may have been told this before.

You think to yourself, 'This method is better than that one.'
Even when someone impressive says something, you feel, 'Yeah, but...'
But, because you haven't achieved results yet...

At times like that, people around you say this.

But you are not stubborn.

You have confidence in your own intuition, but because there are no results, no one believes you.

If this state continues, your confidence is slowly chipped away.

But try to look back.

You have immediately tried things when you heard someone say something and thought, 'Amazing!' or 'I see!'

In fact, you are a flexible person who absorbs things quickly.

The reason you feel like things aren't going well is not because of your personality.

The reason imitating others doesn't work is not because you are stubborn,

but because you are trying to install someone else's blueprint.

That is like trying to force Windows software onto a Mac; it's never going to work.

Even if you learn at a seminar or receive consulting, the reason you feel uneasy and drop out halfway through is not because the content is bad or because you lack grit.

It is simply that the method does not suit you.

For example, if you are the type who gets flashes of inspiration in sudden moments,

a method like doing the same thing steadily every day will actually decrease your performance.

Even if you are called lazy, stubborn, or lacking in persistence for that...

Also, in the world of self-help, it is often said,

'First, try doing it with an open mind.'

That is what they say.
Certainly, that is also important.

However,

What is truly important is to incorporate other people's opinions as an essence whilemaking the final decision based on your own intuition.

This is because most successful people are teaching based on n=1, which is their own style of success experience.
It goes without saying, but you are not that person.

That is precisely whymixing in your own originalityis important.

When you try something and can't do it, and then a feeling wells up from within you to 'try doing exactly what this person says!', you will demonstrate incredible absorption, and it will surely become a significant part of you.

Both you and successful people are on the same continuum. You are the same human beings.

As long as you don't look up to others too much or put yourself down too much, you can connect to the future you have envisioned.

The fact that you have a passionate feeling in your heart and a dream you want to fulfill means that you have the power to achieve it.

To add one more thing, I think 'stubborn' is a word used in a negative sense, but

If you are called stubborn, that stubbornness is not about being unable to change, but is activated to protect your own sensibilities and senses.

Choosing a different way than others. Feeling that something is different.

That is not rebellion, but a defensive reaction to protect the system that is you.

And that is exactly what supports your originality.

In other words, your stubbornness exists to protect you and to remind you of who you are.

Therefore,
for example, the fact that you haven't seen results yet is not because of your stubbornness.
Rather, it is something that is protecting you.

Please cherish that 'I think this is different' feeling, no matter how little results you may have right now.

And if you think, 'I was wrong,' then please honestly correct your course.
That, too, is what it means to live according to your own senses.

Trust yourself, and trust others.
Let's live richly, happily, and joyfully with your own sensibilities.