Does credibility and persuasiveness resonate? - The fine line of being 'arrogant' +

"What is the difference between running and jogging?"
someone asked this simple question.
~The story that unfolds from there will be for later.

On the other hand, I had an opportunity to think about the paranoia of
"I wonder what people around me think of me..."

　The above cases are generally in different areas and I feel there is no mutual connection.
　However, this is a story about a "realization"💡 that the essence is connected...

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"Leading by example" is a good phrase.

　Whether a person is in a position of authority or even if they are "not really," "You... this part of you is not good☝" requires caution when stating.

　Even in situations where the person in question is "asking for it," perhaps it is just my own quirk that I often feel the expectation of success from a realization is overshadowed by feeling a reprimand from above but in any case

"Can you do that yourself, considering you're the one saying it?"

I don't feel good watching things that could trigger a retort like that from the sidelines😞

　Unless there is a mutual relationship of trust where you would want to react by saying, "I see, as expected of you to say that👍," I would want to refrain from making harsh comments to someone who has lost their confidence🚫
　Even if they show a good reaction on the surface... isn't the deep-seated [psychology] actually otherwise?😣

　It is a fact that people who speak with overall awareness are "not quite [thoughtful], but are skilled at 'something'," so there are parts to emulate. However, when making harsh criticisms with the line, "The way you say that is...", one cannot avoid the perspective of, "No, no, what about the way you are saying that right now?" and it is not as if they are unaware that they cannot escape that point of contention...

　Aren't they more oblivious than the original person being criticized?

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"What is the difference between running and jogging?"

An acquaintance was asking a wide circle of friends.
*For the sake of their reputation, I won't go into detail, but let's assume this is coming from someone with a substantial physique 🐘

How would you answer?

Among the various responses provided, let me first introduce one that stood out.

Don't you think that's an excellent way of looking at it? ( ..)φ memo memo

On the other hand...
They are here too, as expected 😞

It might be too strong to call it 'pretending to know,' but there was a development where I couldn't help but feel, 'Are you really the one saying that!? 😨'

For those who are so-called diet believers, I understand that 'moderate running,' which is intense exercise, is actually inefficient. Of course, I have no intention of denying the credibility of the academic discussion 🙅

However, at the very least, [proof] from the speaker themselves is something I would like to see.
I felt it was the kind of thing where people would say, 'If you're going to say that, show us by doing it yourself first!'

In other words, did you actually do it, saying, 'See, as I thought, even after doing this much [running], it didn't have the same effect as [jogging]?'

Well, even in that case, I would want the disclaimer, 'This was the case for me ✌' 🤔
*Even on TV shopping, it is always displayed as 'These are individual results'

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If it is a situation where you have paid money for a seminar or the like with full understanding, and have developed a relationship where you revere the person as if you have become their disciple (mutual relationship), then that is fine. Holding charisma and being blind to it is the person's own choice🤯

Having said that, it is an unfortunate development that in many cases, regardless of the area of concern, people use 'because I like them (and what they say)' as the basis for their judgment(>_<)

While keeping in mind the saying 'a great player does not necessarily make a great manager,' my personal opinion when examining the second proposition is that perhaps something that is valid as a basis for judgment, such as 'because it is said by someone who has achieved it🤔,' carries significant weight as reliability✍
However, this is not about an obsession with 'social achievements' or 'fame,' but ratherstrictly about the essential background.
I do not want to hear people speaking 'bluntly' about examples or topic areas that they 'do not even know' or 'cannot even do'😞

Especially regarding the mind and body, it is a 'mystery'✨
Things like 'do this to lose weight' vary from person to person, and even if there is proof for many people statistically (clinically), an attitude of deciding 'this is what you should do' is a bit...😞

Oh, right, the part about 'what is a calorie?'
You know who said it, right?
A famous quote that comes up occasionally☝ my note skimming🚫(lol)

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