Why you don't feel rested even when you are resting
To put it simply,
the reason you don't feel rested is that your mind, not your body, is not getting any rest.
You are sleeping properly.
You are resting, at least to some extent.
Even so, that heavy feeling just won't go away.
That is not because you are slacking off.
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“Resting” does not mean “doing nothing”
Even when you intend to rest,
your mind is constantly active.
・Is this okay?
・Maybe I should have done more.
・What should I do tomorrow?
Even if your body is still,
your mind is still working.
That is why your fatigue doesn't go away.
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The more serious you are, the more guilty you feel when resting
The more serious you are,
the more you look for a reason to rest.
・Because I am tired
・Because I am not feeling well
But in reality,
you don't need a reason.
Thinking that resting itself
is a bad thing is what makes it most exhausting.
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Fatigue is made of “accumulation”
Fatigue
does not build up all at once in a single day.
Small acts of endurance and tension
pile up little by little,
until one day, it “won't go away.”
That is why recovery
also takes time.
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Today, “you don't have to recover”
You don't have to feel better today.
It is okay if your fatigue doesn't go away.
Today, just
“not getting any more tired” is enough.
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One easy option
“Don't make recovery your goal today”
Just by doing that, your mind can rest a little.
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Summary
• The reason you don't feel rested is that your mind is not getting any rest
• The more serious you are, the harder it is to rest
• Recovery takes time
Today,
it doesn't have to be a “day to make things better.”
It can just be a day to stop yourself from going any further.
