[The Power of Words for HSP (Shy People) 265] A Recipe for Courage to Take the First Step, Dedicated to You Who Are Lost
I am sharing the "power of words" for HSP (shy people) who like being "loners" to
live life finding it interesting until they die.
■ [7 Habits of the Power of Words for HSP (Shy People)]
~A recipe for courage to take the first step, dedicated to you who are lost~
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This anxiety is just like pudding.
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I received a question via email.
"Will the work I write sell?"
I get asked this quite a lot,
so
I think it might be a worry or anxiety
that many people have.
And
not limited to brush lettering, art, or handmade items,
even for intangible things (information or knowledge),
I want to make and sell something!
I think this is a common
mental fog for people who feel that way...
I also had feelings of anxiety
when I first started, and
I'm sure I had similar
thoughts to you,
so I will give you my own answer.
You see, this kind of anxiety,
until you actually try selling it,
the answer is something
that "no one knows."
Unless you are a prophet who can see the future,
no one can know at all.
What is unpredictable even to a prophet is
how you will feel
if you try selling it.
Only you can know that.
So, worrying and worrying,
worrying yourself sick,
and in the end...
deciding to quit
is quite a 'waste'.
I often say that there is no such thing as a waste,
but
in this case,
it is a waste of time.
While you are worrying,
your 'life' is being whittled away,
it is decreasing, so
just go ahead and try it,
and if it doesn't work, it doesn't work,
and you can just
think of a countermeasure afterward.
If you try it and don't like it,
you can just quit.
I think it's a shame to quit
without even trying.
If you try it,
your life might change drastically,
or it might not change at all,
but you won't know unless you try, right?
For example...
'I wonder if this pudding is delicious,'
you say,
and whether to eat it or not,
it's the same as worrying about it for your whole life...
“Why not just try selling it?” right?
Especially for HSPs and shy people,
the anxiety of “What if I fail?”
is so strong that
it can be hard to
take that first step.
But,
that very sensitivity
is a precious personality trait
that makes your product special.
So...
“Just try selling it first”
is the only option.
Just give it a try first,
and as for what happens after,
think about it later...
I hope today's answer
becomes the catalyst for you to move forward.
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