A Story About Love, More Important Than Heart-Pounding Excitement

The person you truly love is someone who brings peace to your heart

For you, who is the person you truly love?
Someone who makes you suffer when you cannot see them?
Someone who never leaves your thoughts?
Someone whose presence makes your heart race uncontrollably?

When you are in love,
you might think that such intense emotions are what "love" is.
But I,
through many readings, have come to feel this way:
The person you truly love,
might just be someone who makes your heart feel at peace.

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Love deepens in front of someone with whom you can be yourself

You don't have to force yourself.
You don't have to stretch beyond your limits.
You don't have to try hard to avoid being disliked.
Someone with whom,
you can just be your natural self.
You feel calm even without words.
Just by being by their side,
for some reason, your heart settles.
Time spent with such a person,
might not be flashy.
But it quietly, surely, fills your heart.
The person you truly love is,
not someone who makes you feel anxious,
but someone with whom you can be yourself.
That is what I believe.

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Excitement is important, but peace of mind is just as important

Of course,
excitement is also necessary in love.
The thrill of romance is,
something beautiful and essential.
But,
if you are going to walk through life together,
feeling at peace might be just as important,
or perhaps, even more so.
When something happy happens,
they are the first person you want to tell.
When you are sad and want to cry, they are the person you want to see.
When something happens, they are the person who naturally comes to mind.
I believe that such a presence,
is a truly precious connection.

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When you are lost in love, please try thinking this way

Instead of asking, "Who makes my heart race?"
ask yourself, "Who makes my heart feel calm when we are together?"
Please try asking that.
Romance is,
not just about falling for someone,
but about being able to be yourself in front of them.
Not someone who steals your heart,
but someone who gently puts your heart at ease.
A love with such a person,
will surely make you the happiest.

From Hanarei Bizen



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