When You're Lost

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Yahoo! It's Marui🌸

Today, it's a story about what happened inside a certain "human's" heart.

One day, they heard two completely different opinions from someone they respect, and their heart felt a little shaken.


1. Two wonderful sets of words

☀️ Words that sparkle like the sun
A leader of a beach cleanup group.
A hot, dazzling light who says "Action is love!" with their back.
When you hear it, you want to go outside and move!

🌌 Words as vast as the universe
A teacher who is quietly present.
A deep, light stillness that embraces both light and shadow entirely.
Just by "being" there, the tension in your shoulders melts away.


Both are wonderful.
But what they were saying wasthe exact opposite.

2. Value whether it "resonates with you now"

In the past, the human used to look for the "correct answer" outside.

The judgment tournament in their brain was always making a huge racket!
"Which one is correct!?"
"Who gets the gold medal!?"

Respect meant immediate adoption, discomfort meant sealing it away.
Their own feelings were always eliminated in the preliminaries.

But it's different now.
Even if it's words from someone they love and respect,
if they get a "Hmm?" feeling,

" not adopted for me right now"

It's not a denial or rebellion, and it doesn't mean the other person is wrong.
The only thing that matters is "does it resonate with me now?"

After feeling a little shaken this time,
the human stopped and observed the scenery through the two sets of words.

What kind of resonance is there in the heart or body?
Is there a feeling of the body expanding softly?
They only kept the scenery that truly resonated.

3. It's okay to be shaken

There are still times when they feel shaken, or times when they think "I don't know!"

Sometimes they want to click for a perfect answer from outside, like "Please give me a 100% correct AI, Doraemon!" 🤪

But, "It's okay to be like that too."

Accepting the shaken self as is, and little by little letting go of the "must-dos."
When you choose the path that makes your heart feel light and fluffy, the world looks a little kinder too.



4. Both the answer and how you choose are free

When you're lost, stop thinking in circles in your head and try taking a deep breath.

Ask your body.
• Does your breathing get deeper?
• Does your stomach relax?
• Are your shoulders relaxed?
• Is your back light?
• Do you have a feeling of quietly nodding?

That is your sign right now.
It's fine to move on intuition, or to put it on hold.
How you choose is also free.


5. Paint your own unique scenery

Instead of just copying borrowed scenery, the human paints new scenery while mixing in their own colors, winds, and light little by little.
Sometimes, an unexpected color pops out,

and they might laugh and say "Huh?"
But that is also truly their own.

Borrowed light and mixed colors eventually become their own scenery.
Looking at that scenery, their heart feels soft and warm.

That alone is enough.

🌸 A word from Marui

It seems the human doesn't look for "correct answers" outside anymore.

Both the active love like the sun and the stillness that embraces like the universe are beautiful scenery.

Open the window gently according to today's mood, and paint your own scenery smoothly.

Even if unexpected colors mix in, smile and say it's OK.

If you can look at it and think "that's nice," that alone is enough.

Marui is smiling today watching that figure 🌸

May a small flower bloom in your heart today.
Marui loves you so much🩷

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