It is better to let your feelings be known to be more popular

I am Ryotaro, an instructor at 'Koi-Tore University,' a school for learning about love.

I'll start with a question.

Do you think you should tell the girl you're interested in that you like her?

Or do you think it's better not to tell her?

The correct answer is, 'It is better to tell her.'

So-called 'letting your feelings be known' will make you more popular.

However, there is a trick to how you convey it.

If you get the delivery wrong, you'll instantly be labeled as a 'clingy guy,' so today I will explain the correct method.

Many love consultations are sent to the dating community where I serve as an instructor, and this worry about 'letting your feelings be known' is a classic, standard issue.

For example, there was a consultation like this.

Conversely, there is also this kind of consultation.

While these seem like opposite problems, these two people are actually making the same mistake.

"Letting your feelings be known = your value goes down"is what they think.

However, a girl's true feelings are like this.

"I want to be excited by being liked by a man who has composure."

In other words, "composure" and "letting your feelings be known" are not mutually exclusive; you need both.

If you don't show any affection at all, you certainly won't lose points.

But you won't gain any points either.

For girls, it ends with 'He's a nice guy, but I don't feel anything for him.'

So, what causes the point deduction?

The answer is the act of chasing.

Sending follow-up messages when you haven't received a reply.

Sending long messages that take energy to read.

Interfering with their actions, such as asking 'Who are you with today?'

In the world of dating, this is called 'unpopular commitment'.

Another pattern is when you think it's better to let your feelings be known, so you keep saying things like 'You're cute' or 'You're totally my type' over and over during a date.

These are also point deductions.

Even if the 'feeling' is the same, the way you express it can have the exact opposite effect.

I myself was completely the latter in the past.

It happened when I was on a date with a Korean beauty with huge breasts.

I got carried away and kept repeating things like "You're incredibly cute" and "You're totally my type" over and over during the date...

The other person reacted with a sort of forced laugh, like "Uh, thanks..."

Of course, the result was, as you might guess, a fade-out.

So, what is the correct way to let your feelings be known?

On the first date, tell them just once that "You are my type."

This amount is just right.

Instead of sending a long, confession-like message on LINE, just say it casually in the flow of conversation while you are together.

After you say it, don't dwell on it; just spend the rest of the time having fun as usual.

You might think, "Will they really get it if I only say it once?" but it's actually the opposite.

The words of a man who sends "You're cute" every day are nothing more than noise.

You are usually indifferent, but when you meet, you look them straight in the eye and say, 'You're my type.'

This gap is what moves a girl's emotions the most.

Let your feelings be known with confidence.

But do not chase them with your actions.

If you can master this combination, dating becomes a winning game.

In my newsletter, I share more details on the best timing to reveal your feelings and how to behave to attract girls without chasing them.

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