Thank you for being my friend for 70 years

#Write an ending note while you are still healthy

The other day, I went to the funeral of a friend who I was informed had passed away.

I am writing an article like this.

Meet the people you want to see. You never know when you won't be able to see them anymore.

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I used to say, "I've had enough of funerals. I don't need to attend them anymore."

But her son, who called me, said,

"My mother wanted to see you. But I didn't make it in time. I think my mother would be happy if you could at least attend her funeral."

I attended with four other friends, thinking that even if I went to the funeral, I wouldn't be able to talk to her anymore.

Although it was described as a "family funeral," there were nearly 100 people in attendance.

Is it because of her character? That's admirable. As for me...

I couldn't help but think about it.

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Even though we met in May, I should have called her more.

I wanted to talk more.

I have so many regrets.

Even so, by attending the funeral, the restless feelings I had been having finally settled down, and I felt relieved.

I once read somewhere that funerals are not only for the person who has passed away, but also for those who will continue to live.

It was a day when I truly felt that.

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The photo displayed on the altar was a wonderful picture of you smiling.

I really want that photo.

I wonder if it's okay to take a picture of the altar photo.

Would it be strange if I took a picture of myself next to it?

I hesitated, worrying about what others around me might think.

But, I really do want that photo.

Regret over things not done.

It is also important to do the things you want to do.

I want to choose a wonderful photo to be my own funeral portrait.

It was a day that gave me many realizations.

Thank you for being my friend for 70 years.

Please rest in peace.

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