The idea that 'you aren't loved because you lack confidence' is a lie. Men just react to ○○

~Love Study Series~

Hello, this is Toxic Tongue Frog🐸
Today's theme is exactly this.

For those of you who think 'I'm not loved because I lack confidence,' it's time to face reality.

The problem of too many people saying, 'I don't have any confidence...'

I hear this a lot in love consultations.
'Even if you tell me it's okay to rely on men... I can't, because I don't have any confidence.'

Yeah, I get it.
But you see,

the big lie that 'only confident women are popular'is just something you've come to believe.

And that misunderstanding runs pretty deep.

Men are creatures that react to 'being a woman'

Let me share a common fact here.

💡Female perspective: 1 out of 10 is good enough (as a romantic interest)
💡Male perspective: 8 out of 10 are viable (as a romantic interest)

That's how muchthe hurdle for being a romantic interest differs.
So first, please drill that into your head.

In other words,
you're just assuming on your own that you're in the 'remaining 20%' of romantic interests.

What does 'being a woman' mean?

I'll tell you straight.

'Not being a man'. That's all it is.

Did you think, 'Huh? What are you talking about?'
But you know, this is the truth.

Masculinity is...

• being rugged

• having thick facial or body hair

• Muscular and buff

• Something hard, strong, and big

In other words, it has 'presence'.

So, what is femininity?

• Being delicate

• Having smooth skin

• Being soft

• Wearing skirts or makeup

• Smelling nice

• Smiling gently

Yes, 'soft, gentle, and small-feeling'.
This gap is what makes men fall hard.

'I don't have any confidence...' is just an excuse.

'I can't do it because I have no chest.'
'I can't date unless I go on a diet.'
'I won't fall in love until I lose muscle.'

...Yes, this is where the lecture begins.

💥Men react to the 'attitude of trying to be feminine'
In other words, the effort to be feminine is already 'femininity' itself.

For example,

• just tying up your hair

• just applying lipstick

• just being conscious of your posture

They're thinking, 'Oh... did she just get more feminine?'

You see, men are incredibly weak for 'women who are trying their best'.

Come to think of it, wasn't it when you were 'free' that you were popular?

Try to remember.

'Being liked by a male friend I wasn't even thinking about'
'Being confessed to by someone I didn't have any feelings for'

You've had experiences like that, right?

That's because you weren't thinking about 'lacking confidence'.

In other words,
it was precisely when you were 'acting freely' that men were attracted to you.

A woman who is loved is a woman who 'enjoys being a woman'

Being a woman is fun, isn't it?

• Choosing clothes

• Doing your makeup

• Acting cute

• Laughing

• Holding hands

All of these become 'femininity'.

🐸Today's Summary

• Men are weak for 'femininity'

• It's natural to lack confidence; everyone is like that

• You are most attractive when you are free

• If you want to be popular, don't neglect being a woman

💬 Where did you stop believing in yourself?

Thank you for reading this far.

Did you think, 'Oh, that's me...'?
If so, try writing it in the comments section.

Your realization might encourage someone else.
The sharp-tongued frog will be reading them with a grin 🐸✨

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